My advice to you is to first buy your Lower Receiver (Rock River Arms) from Pete at Legal Transfers or Eaglefirearms.net.
Get your barrel from the guys at BrettPKfirearms you can find them in the industry board - Good guys to deal with, good products, good prices. Definately get a CHROME LINED barrel
After that you can mix and match any parts that you see or may want to use. I built my last gun primarily off of the equipment exchange on this site and did quite well doing so. If you don't mind having some used parts here and there you can really come in under budget.
Buy a used stock << Most often guys on here get one with their gun and sell them, having hardly been used, electing instead to go with the "in" stock like a Vltor or Magpul. You might have to wait here and there, but they pop up.
Buy the buffer tube, buffer spring, etc used, same as above.
Buy a carry handle used, as with the stock, no one keeps these, again electing for the "in" sight.
Surefires can be had for less on the EE or check out Calvin from bright flashlights HE CAN SAVE YOU MONEY
Magazines - buy ugly beater mags and fix up with Gen II magpul follwers and ranger or lumpy plates. Ask yourself if you want to pay for looks or function. You can always permasilk them later for pennies on the dollar.
Optics - Ebay or EE on here if you want optics - I recommend new, but I have had good used also.
Buy your grip on the used board
Buy your handguards on the used board (Knight's, Surefire, M4 Style, CAR Style, etc.
Buy your bolt, carrier, and trigger new (you don't want them to fail) www.eaglefirearms.net
This is just one man's opinion, but I built a stock M4 config on here 6 months ago for about $650.00 and it was set up exactly as I wanted.