My wife, due to medical issues, has limited upper body strength & mobility. But after shooting my duty rifle, she fell in love with the AR & gave me permission to build 1 for her. So I too am in the planning stages of putting together a lightweight carbine.
I'm glad to read the above posts, because that is pretty much what I have planned.
I've been looking at the pinned lightweight 14" uppers from BRAVO & I'm leaning toward a middy gas system. I will likely put a small RDS on top.
It'll probably get me banned from here, but I'm going with the
New Frontier polymer lower . Since it will rarely be used, much less abused, I'm not concerned about the polymer.
I hadn't thought of trying a lighter BCG.
Of course, being a girly gun, it's likely to end up some bright color of purple, but I'm also thinking about getting a 22 upper for it as well.
Keep us up on your progress; I'd be interested in how it goes.