I'm updating this thread because I tried the ebay $7/3 perma pin knockoff's and they work just fine. Granted, I've only put about 500 rounds through with it, but it's holding up just fine (easy in/out, does not fall out, holds just fine). I'm ordering more. I'm not sure why others are adamant about using the silly cotter pin style, but I'm not and won't. Stoner designed this part as a dedicated pin, and that's what it should be (IMHO). The KNS Perma Pins work great, and so do these FAR cheaper ebay versions. I'll be ordering more of these little buggers.
ETA: these are the pins I'm using now:
http://www.ebay.com/itm/223-5-56-firing-pin-retaining-pin-223-5-56/390660618724?_trksid=p2047675.c100005.m1851&_trkparms=aid%3D222007%26algo%3DSIC.MBE%26ao%3D1%26asc%3D32222%26meid%3D09ffd1a0d1494c0680bafa95d20fd066%26pid%3D100005%26rk%3D2%26rkt%3D6%26mehot%3Dpp%26sd%3D310889042453&rt=nc