Alright, I'm going to offer my 2 cents, now keep in mind it's worth what you paid for it
In the shoes of your lady here? You bought an ACR and* a ruger piston gun. Neither of those are particularly cheap. Now you're talking about getting a high end AR, and then* another AK. Now obviously not all women are the same, and I'm taking a total guess in the dark here- but from her point of view? She's probably picturing you owning 4 expensive guns, and continuously changing them out when you shoot them a bit and suddenly decide you don't like them, possibly deciding you need a newer and more expensive gun. While obviously the approval of an internet stranger like me doesn't matter at all really - and I can only speculate that the above is what your lady is thinking.... but man? Make up your mind. I think your girl really is envisioning a large collection and revolving door of expensive guns, this is probably why she's put the foot down.
Taking off the psuedo-freud hat now (sorry man
), I agree with the poster above me... What* is it that you don't like about your current ACR and ruger? What aren't they doing for you? What will these other guns do that the above won't? Do you simply not like them? Stabs in the dark here: The ruger is a bit front heavy and has a strange recoil pulse, and the ACR isn't that accurate and feels like plastic? or something like that? Or: "this is America, and freedom=/= need, and I want* a new gun, and last time I checked that was still legal." - all are valid answers
My opinion? Look at what your uses for these guns are! If you're like many shooters (again forgive me I'm speculating here), your uses are:
1) Home defense
2) range use
3) possible carbine courses
4) "SHTF"/zombies/redcoats
My opinion* again? I'd say get 2 guns, *Total*.
The design ethos for each gun?
1) A home defense/lightweight HD/Carbine course/SHTF use gun, for short range use
2) A medium to long range gun for range/SHTF/zombie use, in case longer ranges suddenly become of interest to you
For the light gun? The SR-15 is good platform. People speak of them in glowing terms for good reason. They're light, balance well, have a pleasant recoil impulse, are quite accurate, etc. If the words of those who have them are to be believed, it really is a dialed in gun, greater than the sum of its parts. I'd say get one of these and put on an optic you like. the BCM build route is also a good one, the geissele trigger is good- you really can't go wrong there.
For the second gun? My opinion, ditch the AK. consider a longer range platform, (perhaps in 6.5/6.8 etc, so you do* get that harder hitting caliber feel you would have gotten with the AK
- but with longer range accuracy to boot), and get a good optic for it.
My opinion? Look at something like this, or: SR-15 (or the other 2 guns you named, they are* quality guns, I don't think you'll find a bad one between those 3, I just think the SR-15 is sweet), AK, call it a day. Make it clear to your girl that these 2 guns are going to be
it, and the project is a done deal after that.
Just my opinion, I apologize if I stepped on toes or read too hard into the lady's mandate etc etc