We (My parents and now me) have lived in the house since '79 and know exactly where the original property pins are from when the neighborhood was originally surveyed. The ass neighbor had threatened to cut down trees (a number larger than I have in my yard, 3 of which are 100 yr old white oaks) well inside of my 40+ yr old fence line, which is inset 3 in.
Spoke with another neighbor, and turns out the ass neighbor who decided to police knock on my glass storm door, sounding like he would break it, at 9:15p at night is apparently in a progressive stage of dementia. I have decided before I get an attorney involved, to speak with his wife. I have made an incident report with the county sheriff, as the property is in the county, so I have a paper trail if it happens again or I have damage to my back yard. I also informed the other close neighbors I know because Dementia patients usually get aggressive, mean, and can be violent at times, they also get a bit crazier after it gets dark, and for whatever reason he is choosing to focus on my house. I am also sending a letter to the HOA about the incident, and how if they send anyone into my yard it will be considered criminal trespass, not that the HOA will do anything.
I will not be bullied or intimidated at this point, I am too exhausted and out of F's to give. Working 50+hrs a week with 2 jobs (which I love both), while packing and moving 2 households, as well as dealing with probate court in another state and all it entails, has gotten me to this level. A friend joked that I have turned from a Southern Belle to a Steele Magnolia, and I think I am just gonna keep it.