Have only been licensed for a few years now, but had an interest in radio my whole life. Shot for general on my exam date and aced both, tanked extra because I didn't study for it at all.
Also sort of in ARES. I participate in the meetings and nets when I can, but my line of work keeps me tied up with little free time for things like that. We have one weekly ARES net on VHF, and two weekly ARES nets on HF, both open to the public too so we always have non ARES hams checking in. We also have our own little ARRL Field Day event every year. Gives us a chance to break out our field rigs, but honestly it's mostly just an excuse to shoot the breeze and eat good BBQ. Without ARES I am pretty confident the repeaters here would be mostly dead, and there probably wouldn't have been enough interest for me to get licensed. It was one of the ARES members that pushed me to finally get licensed.
Definitely hit up the arfcom ham forum. Lots of good folks in there and they'll get you going on DMR in no time so you can hang out in the arfcom TGIF channel.
My radios:
3x HTs. A motorola HT1250 VHF, an anytone d868uv, and a Baofeng uv5r(was my first radio).
2x HF. A yaesu ft-450d + signalink in the shack, and a yaesu ft-897d with the oem 120v power supply and LDG side mounted auto tuner(my field rig atm).
2x mobile. A yaesu ft-8800r in the truck, and a motorola xtl2500 vhf 50w in the shack.