Update on our trip:
Locals are lucky to live in such a beautiful area of the country! My family had a great time, and it was the best beach experience I've ever had. Walking into the gulf was like walking into a swimming pool. I never wanted to leave the water.
I was only able to try a few of the restaurant recommendations, unfortunately. Most of my travel group consisted of young adults, so we hit a lot of the touristy hotspots, like the Hangout and Flora-Bama. I did pull seniority a few times, which allowed for visits to the Tin Top (which was actually worth the 2.5 hours we waited to get in) and the Ruby Slipper (seated immediately at 8 am). Both places easily lived up to their reviews.
Parasailing for the young ones, an obligatory dolphin cruise, and kayaking at Gulf Shores State Park were other highlights. It was also a lot of fun swimming near dolphins - once we realized they were actually dolphins....
Thanks for the tips!