Do you know if the base of the SRO is taller than the RMR's?
I have G19 with the AOS cut. I have a .360" tall rear sight installed. The bottom the sight window/cut out is about even with the top of the RMR's base. That is the lowest I would go. I have a .280" high front installed but I really need to shoot it more to verify that is the correct height front for that rear. The problem is I am recovering from carpal tunnel surgery and am not sure when I will be able to shoot.
I did sweat the height of the sights as I want the lowest you could go so I would not have these intrusive irons in the middle of the RMR. I have also shot another G19 with an RMR and the .395" rear the GL-429's have. I did not even notice them. Once you get switched on to using the red dot the iron sight height is not that big of a deal.
YMMV.