I have small hands, for example a cz97 is unusable in DA. I literally can't reach the trigger. As a lefty, who broke his thumb as a kid, some safetys can be unusable, such as that on a beretta 92.
I can function the fnx45. Left or right.
I think mine feels like a really hot 9mm to shoot. Definitely not 1911 level recoil. The grip texture anchors it into my hands.
Trigger is more duty oriented, but definitely usable, nothing crazy, it just works.
The sights are odd. The dots don't align with the actual sights, so when using the silhouette of the sights to aim, it shoots high. When aligning the dots its on.
Somewhere in the manufacturing tolerance, a x300ua doesn't perfectly fit on it. I have to put about 10lbs of pressure on the light to flex the whole thing enough for it to snap in. It comes right off no problem when the tabs are pulled to release it.
Mounts up a can just fine, and cycles with my octane 45k no problem.
Didn't like feeding 230gr magtech ball from slide lock. I think the new mags were so stiff, it slowed the slide down enough to leave it OOB. A slight tap to the slide would send it home. Did I mention the mags are stiff? Good lord are they hard to load. I shot 350rds between the 3 mags and they softened up some, figure by 1krds they'll be just fine.
Mounted up a rmr no problem with the included hardware.
I'm happy with the gun, it shoots great. Love that *I* have the choice of carrying it in DA, DA on safe, or cocked and locked, and it has the hammer-block decocker. I like that I can store it hammer down on safe.
Mags aren't too pricey, but they're definitely up there compared to glock. Midway had them for $44 iirc.
Good luck finding a holster that suits your needs and fancy.