So, a couple things, best checked with slide off.
You want to check that the follower is always under the slide stop lobe. Some mags have enough slop that they'll allow the follower to pop over the lobe. Or there may be a .45 slide stop (for example) installed in a 9mm gun, which needs a longer lobe.
If you can determine this, then check the plunger tension on your slide stop. It's difficult to describe the proper amount of tension but it's not much. Better to compare against a properly working 1911 so you can get a feel for it.
If the spring tension is too much, there are about 3 ways to reduce the tension. Some slide stops are longer than others and depress the plunger more. Measure yours and swap in a shorter one to test with. This is a good option but probably the most expensive. Alternately, you may be able to file the plunger end of the slide stop a bit shorter, but this is often not an attractive option if your SS has a finish applied, and requires basic file skills.
Second you may consider shortening the slide stop plunger. This is easy to accomplish with a file, drill and a few minutes. File the rounded end of the slide stop plunger flat and then chuck in a drill, and use file and emery cloth to re-round and polish the plunger. Obviously it helps to have a few spare plungers sitting around for insurance. I often do this on SAs because their plunger tubes usually let the plunger stick out too much, which makes it tough to reinsert the slide stop.
Third way is to clip a couple coils off the plunger spring. Realize that this will commensurately reduce plunger engagement on the safety, which can be problematic if your safety already has soft engagement. Often the least desirable option, but probably the cheapest and easiest, and sometimes it's the right solution.