Hard to say what you should have done without seeing the tree and surrounding area. It might have been better to cut above where it split 5' off the ground, Then drop the main stump after the top is down. At the very least, you should have had ropes or cables in that one before you started cutting. That's neither here nor there, given your current situation.
You might be able to salvage this operation by pounding in some wedges to get your cut separated and nudge it in the right direction. If you can get a rope in the tree, without climbing it, do that too. Attach a messenger line to a small weight, throw it over a substantial branch as high up as you can get it, and use that to haul your rope up. Do the rope before the wedges, since it might go once you start with the wedges, and you really don't want it to fall while you're trying to get a rope on it. For God's sake, be careful though. Also, pull the saw out as soon as the cut opens up enough to do so and get it clear, unless you want to buy a replacement. Obviously, get the hell away from the stump as soon as the tree starts to go over. Based on your description of the tree, it's probably going to roll as it comes down and kick as it hits the ground.
Sometimes trees just don't want to cooperate.