So a good bits happened since the 8th, to include I think God whispered to me? I'm still wrestling with this as it's pretty hard to believe but at the same time why? As a child of God should I be surprised He would speak to me? At that same time I'm like, nah no way, I'm so insignificant...but, as a child of God, I'm not..... so I will go into this, haven't told my pastor yet, I look forward to hearing his thoughts. About 2 weeks ago now I guess I was kneeling at my bed side while my wife was in the kitchen, I think she had just said something harsh recently and I was on my way to bed.
So there I am praying to The Father in heaven, that he would soften her heart to him and cause her to lower her arms and accept him, when and this is hard to explain as I'm not sure it makes sense myself but the only way I can describe it is in the upper left of my mind, I hear (not physical hearing) in my mind ear? "I can not" but in the context of will not, I paused and thought...Duh! It would go against free will if He did, she must choose for herself....so then I'm like wait...that was different, was that...no......was that my thoughts? Or? No...maybe? I have wrestled with it for days trying to do a better job of describing it but when I try to add more substance to the description than this it feels wrong like I'm embellishing it. So, I'll just leave it at that.
Oh and this a few moments later lead me to think what then should I pray for? Then it hit me, how could I be so blind...And I prayed that he would make me a strong leader in my house. That though steadfast uncompromising, loving obedience to Him... well it doesn't mean she will accept Him, but it does mean the best chance. It also means He will and is tearing down every obstacle in his way, including this forum.
I realized recently I had made this forum into an idol, so I cast it off. For days I didn't even visit the forum or do much of anything on my computer, unless it relates to family time.
I am visiting the site very sparsely for short periods now, I figure I'll continue to post in this thread, MAAAYBE post in the thread in general discussion "God is still good" and tech. And that's it. I will not allow the computer or this forum to have a hold on me like it did again.