The Blacksmithing Association of Missouri annual get together at Sedalia is coming up soon.
Sign him up for the beginners class.
There are usually vendors and a swap meet where tools can be found.
There's a man in Staunton Illinois that can probably hook you up with an anvil; check Craig's List Another option is to go to Shapiro's and buy a cutoff of around 100 pounds, then live with the soft surface by grinding it smooth as needed. Fork lift forks with the sharp end buried are popular.
He'll need a stand with a heavy vise. Straight peen and cross peen hammers are common in hardware stores and second hand.
http://www.bamsite.org/
Looks like convention starts 30 April this year. The demonstrators brought in are always worthwhile.
BAM members have monthly get togethers at different members forges, too.