I don't understand. You HAD a job prior to deployment. Instead of going back to it after deployment was over, you took a better job at another company with better hours and pay. For whatever reason, you were in talks with the company you worked for prior to deploying. You requested a raise and they told you no. Then you probably got into it with the recruiter????? because the temp was paid more then you were. Then you obviously follow and maybe interact on linked in and you are pissed they are pissy because you want your job back and a raise over the job you moved to.
Yeah, suck it up commander. If I held a job for you during deployment, then you skipped to another one, then decided the grass was greener [for PTO]at the old job, I'd just put you on ignore and tell my HR people to circular file your applications, resumes, and anything else.
Fwiw, temps often make more money but they don't get beni's either. Probably works out in your favor, you just don't realize it.