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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 10:47:01 AM EDT
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Guy sounds like an asshole
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 10:50:07 AM EDT
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Damn, that's fucked up.  Unless I'm missing something the before pic showing the "highlights" doesn't look bad.
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How it looks probably had nothing to do with it.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 10:58:19 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:02:20 AM EDT
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this is fucked...    nothing of that shitty article adds up.

either way, when its over with I hope the union runs a train on that chief.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:07:23 AM EDT
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I'd wager the kid wanted short hair and couldn't tell mom, so she made up the excuse that it was a punishment.

The short hair pics look styled and done on purpose.

And most kids are liars anyway.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:09:40 AM EDT
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I don't believe it.

I think the daughter was playing one parent off the other and this is the result. Well,the real result is the mom takes the Go Fund Me money to Cabo to get a relief from the emotional trauma.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:14:30 AM EDT
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I don't believe it.

I think the daughter was playing one parent off the other and this is the result. Well,the real result is the mom takes the Go Fund Me money to Cabo to get a relief from the emotional trauma.
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They're up to $3K now. Lol.

Also, turns out the hair was styled like this by a professional hair dresser who is related to the step-mom.

I'm sticking with kid is a liar playing a game.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:16:37 AM EDT
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I'm not a violent type, but I'd gladly take a bat to his kneecaps.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:21:25 AM EDT
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So far we know that the mom, of a divorced couple, made a facebook post accusing her ex of something and CPS got involved.

Other then the screenshot of the fb post showing the girl with short hair, what proof is published showing that 1- dad and step mom did it, 2- it was a punishment?

And who has primary custody? If it's dad and mom did the highlights after he said no, she's the bitch who's weaponizing the kid against him.

My niece had a similar haircut with a similar length chopped off, to donate her hair to some charity that makes wigs for cancer patients. So it's possible the kid did this and mom is using it to attack dad.
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I came to post this...that short cut seems pretty well done for a firefighter. You're talking about guys who use an axe for a house key...not exactly the haircut I would expect.

Maybe it true, but I'll reserve judgement for the investigation to run its course.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:21:51 AM EDT
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Mabey he didn't want his daughter looking like a trampy
Peacock.   If you haven't noticed in today's society our young children look like trashy whores and hoodrats!.

Not saying he went about it correctly, but if you don't want you're children growing up to be tatted, pierced up trash get a handle on the situation early.
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Hair highlights make her look like a tramp?
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:28:45 AM EDT
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But I don’t get the connection to employment.
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child abuse
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:28:55 AM EDT
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Earrings don't.
And short pants dont
And nail polish dont
and highlights dont
and a little rougue dont
and lipstick dont
and a nice frilly low cut blouse dont
and platform shoes dont - some kids look cute in em.

Put all of that together on a 12-16 year old, it screams harlot in training.

Not saying this kid was any of that, just saying there is a road towards being on pornhub.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:29:01 AM EDT
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Mabey he didn't want his daughter looking like a trampy
Peacock.   If you haven't noticed in today's society our young children look like trashy whores and hoodrats!.

Not saying he went about it correctly, but if you don't want you're children growing up to be tatted, pierced up trash get a handle on the situation early.
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Fuck man are you like 100yrs old or something?
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:32:30 AM EDT
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You know I was going to get all outraged and what not but after looking at the photos, piss on those two. I hope they suffer whatever ridiculous fate the government can lob at them. What a miserable fucking piece of shit her "father" is. May the man forever be in their lives from henceforth.
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It doesn't look like those pictures are relevant to the article and are actually just click-bait photos.

Nevertheless, good suspension.  That's some mental abuse of their daughter and I'm sure is just the tip of the iceberg with regards to problems in the household
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:36:57 AM EDT
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I have a 15 year old daughter, I feel sorry for the treatment of the young lady.  That said, I don't know the entire story, thus, not inclined to judge any involved.  Too many what if's are available.  What if the father told his daughter and/or ex that he would cut hair if they did highlights?  How about let's act like adults and discuss the hair treatments before they are done?  And last, it would have been far better to just color over than cut off that much hair.  I'd be pissed if someone did that to my daughter, even if the end result was decent.  PSA - don't EVER use children as pawns to get at someone else.  The child is always the loser in the deal.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:37:17 AM EDT
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When there fucking pink purple and every other color yes they do
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:39:29 AM EDT
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Fuck man are you like 100yrs old or something?
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Mabey he didn't want his daughter looking like a trampy
Peacock.   If you haven't noticed in today's society our young children look like trashy whores and hoodrats!.

Not saying he went about it correctly, but if you don't want you're children growing up to be tatted, pierced up trash get a handle on the situation early.
Fuck man are you like 100yrs old or something?
Nope 41. But was raised that ear rings tats and long hair made you look like a piece of shit. Apparently dad was right
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:45:57 AM EDT
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Child abuse investigation.

Cops and firefighters are held to a higher standard because of their public visibility.  They hammer this in your head so that you won’t do stupid shit that embarrasses the department.

Welder or landscaper?  Cut your daughters hair out of spite and suffer no consequences with work.  Cop or fire fighter? Then get prepared to have your shit pushed in.

Dad and stepmom are first class assholes.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:50:13 AM EDT
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My wife took my daughter to get her haircut one time and my daughter wanted some pink highlights in her hair. So my wife allowed it but mentioned I'd probably be pissed about it. When they came home she was afraid to show me her hair but when she did I said she looked cute with them. So the next time my wife went and got her hair cut she got pink and purple highlights. I still gave zero fucks, she just turned 8 yesterday and I asked when she was going to highlight her hair again and what colors she was going to pick.

Some people are wound too tight.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:50:44 AM EDT
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That "father" needs curb stomped.  FUck him and step mommy
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:51:52 AM EDT
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Mabey he didn't want his daughter looking like a trampy
Peacock.   If you haven't noticed in today's society our young children look like trashy whores and hoodrats!.

Not saying he went about it correctly, but if you don't want you're children growing up to be tatted, pierced up trash get a handle on the situation early.
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Highlights look tastefully done. Not like her hair was colored neon purple or pink. You do realize that a huge percentage of girls/women color their hair in some form or fashion? Doesn't necessarily lead to tramp stamps or body piercings.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:53:12 AM EDT
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1. The two firefighters are POS for humiliating the daughter. Not talking the FB shit but all the questions she has to answer regarding ‘what happened to your hair?’ That looks to be over a years growth. Don’t fuck with your child to get back at your ex.

2. The mother is a POS for posting in social media. Go to CPS or family court and file a complaint.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:55:18 AM EDT
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If you look at the picture hers weren’t.  Looked like pretty normal and conservatively styled hair to me.  If a few highlights in hair make you believe a woman is a tramp, you may want to seek professional help.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:56:11 AM EDT
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My wife took my daughter to get her haircut one time and my daughter wanted some pink highlights in her hair. So my wife allowed it but mentioned I'd probably be pissed about it. When they came home she was afraid to show me her hair but when she did I said she looked cute with them. So the next time my wife went and got her hair cut she got pink and purple highlights. I still gave zero fucks, she just turned 8 yesterday and I asked when she was going to highlight her hair again and what colors she was going to pick.

Some people are wound too tight.
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Truth
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 11:59:07 AM EDT
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Mabey he didn't want his daughter looking like a trampy
Peacock.   If you haven't noticed in today's society our young children look like trashy whores and hoodrats!.

Not saying he went about it correctly, but if you don't want you're children growing up to be tatted, pierced up trash get a handle on the situation early.
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:03:03 PM EDT
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That looks like a professional haircut. Maybe the daughter wanted short hair? I reserve outrage until the facts come in.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:03:39 PM EDT
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It is fucking ridiculous.
What's more ridiculous is that this is now a national news story.
A tiny family drama is now elevated far above any reasonable need, for what?
Fucking media is a akin to slime mold, corrupts and destroys everything it touches.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:05:14 PM EDT
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That looks like a professional haircut. Maybe the daughter wanted short hair? I reserve outrage until the facts come in.
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I found it was done by a professional. The article is misleading.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:06:53 PM EDT
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Hair highlights make her look like a tramp?
When there fucking pink purple and every other color yes they do
There's a picture if you bothered to read the article. They were blonde and looked fine.
Newsflash: Women and girls color their hair. Who knew?
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:06:57 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:07:01 PM EDT
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That looks like a professional haircut. Maybe the daughter wanted short hair? I reserve outrage until the facts come in.
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I don't get this argument.   One parent forcing their daughter to get her hair cut off, even by a professional, because she got highlights approved by the other parent is just as wrong as if they did it themselves.  Where's the disconnect, here?

I'm not saying we have all the facts but using a child as a pawn in this game isn't exactly new and unheard of.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:08:31 PM EDT
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And cutting his daughters hair off will make her love him even more.
The lack of common sense is mind boggling.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:09:28 PM EDT
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If the story is true as reported, then the father and step-mother are total assholes who deserve to be relegated to supervised visitation.  I don't blame the fire department for getting involved.  Last thing they need is a story ten months down the road about how they kept an abusive father on the payroll.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:12:52 PM EDT
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Interesting, I have a SIL who had the same thing done to her daughter by her ex husband. Went to his place for the weekend with long hair, came home with a cropped cut.

No headlines but that divorce turned into a 6 year running train wreck.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:13:31 PM EDT
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Do you want a fire fighter that can't make rational simple choices?
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:17:11 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:22:47 PM EDT
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So far we know that the mom, of a divorced couple, made a facebook post accusing her ex of something and CPS got involved.

Other then the screenshot of the fb post showing the girl with short hair, what proof is published showing that 1- dad and step mom did it, 2- it was a punishment?

And who has primary custody? If it's dad and mom did the highlights after he said no, she's the bitch who's weaponizing the kid against him.

My niece had a similar haircut with a similar length chopped off, to donate her hair to some charity that makes wigs for cancer patients. So it's possible the kid did this and mom is using it to attack dad.
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My daughter donates her hair too, they don't want the hair if it's been dyed or chemically treated.

The donation is also HIGHLY suspect, but that is another story.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:24:02 PM EDT
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My wife took my daughter to get her haircut one time and my daughter wanted some pink highlights in her hair. So my wife allowed it but mentioned I'd probably be pissed about it. When they came home she was afraid to show me her hair but when she did I said she looked cute with them. So the next time my wife went and got her hair cut she got pink and purple highlights. I still gave zero fucks, she just turned 8 yesterday and I asked when she was going to highlight her hair again and what colors she was going to pick.

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Your wife just turned 8?
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:29:05 PM EDT
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There's a picture if you bothered to read the article. They were blonde and looked fine.
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I Did read the article and yes the highlights looked fine for a young lady. My point is next time it won't be normal.

Kids keep screaming for attention look at me and next you end up with a pierced nose and a tramp stamp on you're 16 year old daughter....

Congrats you've raised a future tramp!
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:39:20 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:47:05 PM EDT
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I don't know why their boss thinks he can do anything about this because it has nothing to do with their job. but that was a dick move for the father of that girl to do that to her.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:52:35 PM EDT
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I don't know why their boss thinks he can do anything about this because it has nothing to do with their job. but that was a dick move for the father of that girl to do that to her.
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One of the hazards of public employment.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:53:02 PM EDT
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Wait! An ex-wife makes a claim of insensitivity and everyone loses their mind.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:56:21 PM EDT
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You know I was going to get all outraged and what not but after looking at the photos, piss on those two. I hope they suffer whatever ridiculous fate the government can lob at them. What a miserable fucking piece of shit her "father" is. May the man forever be in their lives from henceforth.
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Yeah I'm sure school is a blast for her now that she looks like Rachel Maddow
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 12:56:28 PM EDT
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I Did read the article and yes the highlights looked fine for a young lady. My point is next time it won't be normal.

Kids keep screaming for attention look at me and next you end up with a pierced nose and a tramp stamp on you're 16 year old daughter....

Congrats you've raised a future tramp!
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And you know this how? What exactly did the daughter do to make you think she's screaming for attention?

Dude, I wish you hadn't told us your age. It was more comforting to believe that someone as out of touch as you must be confined to an old folks home.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 1:01:59 PM EDT
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When there fucking pink purple and every other color yes they do
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Hair highlights make her look like a tramp?
When there fucking pink purple and every other color yes they do
Bullshit.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 1:03:19 PM EDT
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Wait! An ex-wife makes a claim of insensitivity and everyone loses their mind.
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Link Posted: 2/3/2018 1:05:14 PM EDT
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If someone who worked for me pulled that shit I'd fire them as soon as I learned about it.

What an asshole thing to do.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 1:05:50 PM EDT
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Yeah I'm sure school is a blast for her now that she looks like Rachel Maddow
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You know I was going to get all outraged and what not but after looking at the photos, piss on those two. I hope they suffer whatever ridiculous fate the government can lob at them. What a miserable fucking piece of shit her "father" is. May the man forever be in their lives from henceforth.
Yeah I'm sure school is a blast for her now that she looks like Rachel Maddow
Apparently a lot of people in GD thinks it looks great.  A lot better than the devil's highlights.
Link Posted: 2/3/2018 1:07:34 PM EDT
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Wow, the derp in this thread is just...
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