You're fighting an uphill battle. But a fight worth having if it bothers you that much. I'm weird about sounds like that too. But, this will be a hell of a project, and you'll need to be very thorough with each step. And, honestly will never be as quiet as a modern diesel. Just know that going in.
A lot of the sound you're hearing is coming through the hood and the windshield. Step 1 is an acoustic windshield. I'm not a glass guy, but I think you're stuck with just upgrading the windshield. I don't think they make aftermarket acoustic glass for the doors. If you find some, let me know.
That'll prob be the largest single change. After that you can put a liner under the hood that is cotton carpeting jute that is foil faced on both sides. There's a few products out there on Amazon. I think one is an American company. But I forget the name. They also sell a high temp spray adhesive and a foil tape to adhere it to the underside of the hood, and protect the insulation from the elements.
After that is the fun part. Removing interior panels and carpet. Then, Vacuuming/scrubbing/steaming the metal floor since it'll have 25 years of sand and other crap that was spilled and then dried.
Then dynamat the floor, interior and exterior door skins, and maybe even the roof. And, hope all your panels fit back together properly.
Oh, and your weatherstripping is also 25 years old. There's a good chance it has shrunk/dried out some, and is letting in engine/road noise. Rejuvenating it once it has lost its original dimensions is nearly impossible, so replace that too.
Good luck!