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Posted: 2/26/2021 1:09:04 PM EDT
Does not apply to me. Would it matter if she has a white baby under 1?
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Probably not
But to be fair, I personally wouldn't date a girl with kids (of any race) after having done that once when I was younger. Speed |
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Plenty of good looking girls with no kids.
I have dated a few single mothers, dont want to deal with the ex's. |
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Based on solely what you asked? Sure
Way too many other variables that would change that answer |
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Does she have big fake tits? If so, don’t care. At one years old you can make the kid conservative. One condition is daddy needs to be gone, black or white.
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Nope. Doesn't matter what race the kid is.
After my divorce, I refused to date anyone with kids. My new baby mama had no kids so that was a plus. I fooled around with a gal that had three kids. Her husband left her for the babysitter. She was looking for a dad for the three kids. They were fucking disasters. |
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Date? Yes. But you need to find out the story on the crumbsnatcher, regardless of color.
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When I found myself divorced with 2 kids at age 40, I dated a few single moms. Just for fun. Never met the kids.
Date seriously? Get the fuck out. |
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Asian kid maybe. But nothing that young. Maybe a kid in the late teens.
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Good job OP, it's not many who can make a question about risk aversion a racial dogwhistle at the same time.
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As a rule, I think an individual of any color who is a single mother of a very young child (again, of any color) is highly, highly likely to be somebody of low moral character, poor decision making abilities, and poor impulse control abilities.
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White supremacy is white supremacy post. The dems and the news told me so
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I don't have kids. I don't want kids. I don't care what color they are. I damn sure ain't raising someone else's babies.
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Color of the child should never matter. What matters is if the father actually is a part of the child's life. Deadbeat dads come in all colors, yes including white guys. I'm not just talking paying child support, but does he actually help take care of the child? If not, eject as that is a likely sign she makes bad choices as to the kind of guy she wants. If he is an actual part of the child's life and you want to date her, still be prepared to get up in the middle of the night, dodging baby toys left on the floor, spoon feeding junior and having a baby seat installed in YOUR vehicle.
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Not enough information.
She could be wealthy, gainfully employed, had a child through in vitro fertilization and doesn't want marriage drama. |
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Dated one with 5 kids once. Never ever again.
PS, the kids weren't the problem, they're all grown adults now and we still get along great. |
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Noooope. Not putting my resources into someone else's fuck trophy.
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Pro tip. If you stay you get to fight the ex when he shows up horny. Also she’s going to try to get knocked up by you to finance the kids. (Removed, CoC #1. -40xb)
Wouldn’t even touch it. Eject NOW. |
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Only matters if deadbeat dad will be in the child's life in the future, and since the future is not set, then no it must be.
Why plunge into drama that you can neither control or create on your own. |
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Quoted: As a rule, I think an individual of any color who is a single mother of a very young child (again, of any color) is highly, highly likely to be somebody of low moral character, poor decision making abilities, and poor impulse control abilities. View Quote Sounds ideal for most of ARF. |
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Considering I can't have my own kids, I would date her if I was single.
But even if I could have my own kids, I still would consider it. I have a stepmother that came into my life when I was 4 and ended up being the best mom anyone could ask for. Very likely saved me from a very miserable and bad life. So I'm VERY supportive of step parents and hope I can be a dad one day. I get why others wouldn't want to, but what has made America a good country is looking past oneself and helping others. Doing things even when they are hard. So I challenge all of you guys to at least consider it. You could have a huge impact on someone's life and be a father to them. I can't wait to be a dad one day but after trying for several years I'm starting to question if I'll ever be. My state just banned abortion so maybe our chances of adoption will increase quite a bit. |
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