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Posted: 2/26/2021 1:09:04 PM EDT
Does not apply to me. Would it matter if she has a white baby under 1?
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:09:56 PM EDT
[#1]
hell no
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:10:35 PM EDT
[#2]
Meal ticket 101.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:11:32 PM EDT
[#3]
Hard pass. No matter what color her kid is lol
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:12:19 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:12:40 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:12:41 PM EDT
[#6]
Wait.....is she black too?  I'm am confuse
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:12:59 PM EDT
[#7]
Probably not
But to be fair, I personally wouldn't date a girl with kids (of any race) after having done that once when I was younger.

Speed
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:13:11 PM EDT
[#8]
(Removed, CoC #1. -40xb)

Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:13:33 PM EDT
[#9]
Plenty of good looking girls with no kids.

I have dated a few single mothers, dont want to deal with the ex's.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:13:36 PM EDT
[#10]
Race makes no difference, it's still a Hell No
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:03 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:08 PM EDT
[#12]
I don't care if the kid is blue, no!
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:08 PM EDT
[#13]
Yeeeah, no. Hit it then quit it.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:10 PM EDT
[#14]
Stupid thread is stupid because of the race BS.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:20 PM EDT
[#15]
Color of the kid has no baring on my decision.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:14:39 PM EDT
[#16]
Based on solely what you asked? Sure

Way too many other variables that would change that answer
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:15:37 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:16:29 PM EDT
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Does she have big fake tits? If so, don’t care. At one years old you can make the kid conservative. One condition is daddy needs to be gone, black or white.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:16:40 PM EDT
[#19]
Nope. Doesn't matter what race the kid is.

After my divorce, I refused to date anyone with kids. My new baby mama had no kids so that was a plus.

I fooled around with a gal that had three kids. Her husband left her for the babysitter. She was looking for a dad for the three kids. They were fucking disasters.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:16:41 PM EDT
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This. I wouldn’t do it regardless of the race.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:18:13 PM EDT
[#21]
Date?  Yes.  But you need to find out the story on the crumbsnatcher, regardless of color.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:18:51 PM EDT
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^This...
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:18:52 PM EDT
[#23]
When I found myself divorced with 2 kids at age 40, I dated a few single moms.  Just for fun.  Never met the kids.  
Date seriously? Get the fuck out.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:19:08 PM EDT
[#24]
Asian kid maybe.  But nothing that young.  Maybe a kid in the late teens.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:19:12 PM EDT
[#25]
Noop
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:19:18 PM EDT
[#26]
Good job OP, it's not many who can make a question about risk aversion a racial dogwhistle at the same time.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:20:12 PM EDT
[#27]
What's that saying - "Once you go black, you don't go back"
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:20:28 PM EDT
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As a rule, I think an individual of any color who is a single mother of a very young child (again, of any color) is highly, highly likely to be somebody of low moral character, poor decision making abilities, and poor impulse control abilities.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:20:51 PM EDT
[#29]
White supremacy is white supremacy post.  The dems and the news told me so
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:20:54 PM EDT
[#30]
I don't have kids. I don't want kids.  I don't care what color they are.  I damn sure ain't raising someone else's babies.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:20:55 PM EDT
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Same. Too many fish in the sea to deal with a woman that has guaranteed baggage.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:21:34 PM EDT
[#32]
Hey Earl

Hey crabman

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Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:22:09 PM EDT
[#33]
Color of the child should never matter.  What matters is if the father actually is a part of the child's life. Deadbeat dads come in all colors, yes including white guys.  I'm not just talking paying child support, but does he actually help take care of the child? If not, eject as that is a likely sign she makes bad choices as to the kind of guy she wants.  If he is an actual part of the child's life and you want to date her, still be prepared to get up in the middle of the night, dodging baby toys left on the floor, spoon feeding junior and having a baby seat installed in YOUR vehicle.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:22:39 PM EDT
[#34]
It’s not the color of the kid. It’s the kid. Hard no.
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Screenname checks out
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:22:50 PM EDT
[#36]
Nope.

Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:24:11 PM EDT
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Pretty much.


How about:


Would you date a single girl with a child under a year old? NO

Would you date a single girl whose last boyfriend was black. yes
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:25:24 PM EDT
[#38]
Not enough information.

She could be wealthy, gainfully employed, had a child through in vitro fertilization and doesn't want marriage drama.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:25:26 PM EDT
[#39]
Dated one with 5 kids once.  Never ever again.
PS, the kids weren't the problem, they're all grown adults now and we still get along great.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:26:22 PM EDT
[#40]
Is the kid mine?
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:26:56 PM EDT
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I chuckled
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:27:01 PM EDT
[#42]
Noooope. Not putting my resources into someone else's fuck trophy.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:28:19 PM EDT
[#43]
Pro tip. If you stay you get to fight the ex when he shows up horny. Also she’s going to try to get knocked up by you to finance the kids. (Removed, CoC #1. -40xb)
Wouldn’t even touch it. Eject NOW.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:29:42 PM EDT
[#44]
Only matters if deadbeat dad will be in the child's life in the future, and since the future is not set, then no it must be.

Why plunge into drama that you can neither control or create on your own.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:30:00 PM EDT
[#45]
This thread is bait.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:31:46 PM EDT
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Sounds ideal for most of ARF.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:33:06 PM EDT
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Yeah, no shit.  

Trying to bait others to make your point for you is unbecoming, OP.  Own your opinions, FFS
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:33:31 PM EDT
[#48]
Rules
1. I don’t date single mothers
2. She has to have a job
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:34:32 PM EDT
[#49]
Pass.
Link Posted: 2/26/2021 1:35:26 PM EDT
[#50]
Considering I can't have my own kids, I would date her if I was single.

But even if I could have my own kids, I still would consider it.  

I have a stepmother that came into my life when I was 4 and ended up being the best mom anyone could ask for.  Very likely saved me from a very miserable and bad life.  So I'm VERY supportive of step parents and hope I can be a dad one day.

I get why others wouldn't want to, but what has made America a good country is looking past oneself and helping others.  Doing things even when they are hard.  So I challenge all of you guys to at least consider it.  You could have a huge impact on someone's life and be a father to them.  

I can't wait to be a dad one day but after trying for several years I'm starting to question if I'll ever be.  

My state just banned abortion so maybe our chances of adoption will increase quite a bit.  

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