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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:31:40 PM EDT
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SIHPAPP
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:31:42 PM EDT
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If she is separated you run a good chance of being involved in a legal battle, getting killed by a jealous husband, fucking up some impressionable 4 year olds mind…. If you’re a risk taker with questionable ethics, go for it.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:32:09 PM EDT
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Quoted: Dearest GD- I have an ex girlfriend from my mid 20’s that has since married, had a child, and moved across the country. We keep in sparse contact, and I last saw her when we both lived on the east coast in maybe 2009. We’ve texted a little (maybe 10 times since then), but never spoke via voice since we parted. This week, she lets me know that she’s divorcing her man-child husband. Their son is maybe 4. She said she wants come visit me during the separation. Interesting. Advice? Suggestions? Do I fo? Edited to add- Has a good job, pays most of their bills and pays the entire mortgage. Girl boss. Never raise another man’s seed! |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:32:43 PM EDT
[#4]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She wants some known good cock. Isn’t that the Divorce 101? Contact former partners / crushes for rebound rendezvous. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:33:42 PM EDT
[#5]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She went and had a kid with another guy and when that didn't work out she's turning to you out of desperation and you're wondering if you should take her back after not really knowing each other for 14 years and now have a step kid. Yeah totally go for it.  |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:34:07 PM EDT
[#6]
You couldn't find another girl since then?
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:34:07 PM EDT
[#7]
Lots of sex and blow jobs in your future.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:34:33 PM EDT
[#8]
Have you seen pics? Likely gained a hundy. Enjoy 3 bills of misery.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:35:07 PM EDT
[#9]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Do yourself a favor and wait until she's divorced and gets her head on straight If she is still worth it, she's still worth waiting a bit for. Don't start a new relationship with her by eating half a shit sandwich. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:35:08 PM EDT
[#10]
I hope you'll be testifying for the husband when he argues she's abandoned the family residence and the marriage before its dissolution. Maybe you can get his child support reduced. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:35:17 PM EDT
[#11]
Somebody, somewhere, is tired of her shit. That used to be you. Go for it.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:35:21 PM EDT
[#12]
Quote HistoryQuoted: If she is separated you run a good chance of being involved in a legal battle, getting killed by a jealous husband, fucking up some impressionable 4 year olds mind…. If you’re a risk taker with questionable ethics, go for it. I’ve made a career off being a risk taker with questionable ethics. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:07 PM EDT
[#13]
Sure man, go for it. I can't think of anything to be worried about...
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:19 PM EDT
[#14]
Ex's are ex's for a reason.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:22 PM EDT
[#15]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I hope you'll be testifying for the husband when he argues she's abandoned the family residence and the marriage before its dissolution. Maybe you can get his child support reduced. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:25 PM EDT
[#16]
Not only no, but HELL NO!
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:32 PM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She went and had a kid with another guy and when that didn't work out she's turning to you out of desperation and you're wondering if you should take her back after not really knowing each other for 14 years and now have a step kid. Yeah totally go for it. Yup. There is a 0% chance of drama. Someone whose life has been completely turned upside down and wants to bring you into it sounds like a great idea. However, she is not your wife. You have no commitment to this person. If things get crazy, just tell her bye and move on. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:36:55 PM EDT
[#18]
Unless she's getting divorced because of sexual infidelity or immorality, you would be committing adultery.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:37:03 PM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Nope...I'll still be here telling jokes Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I hope you'll be testifying for the husband when he argues she's abandoned the family residence and the marriage before its dissolution. Maybe you can get his child support reduced. Lol sorry I didn't mean to quote you... just to reply to OP |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:37:04 PM EDT
[#20]
She is an ex for a reason I am guessing.
I chased an ex years ago. Learned one lesson that is important in life. Don't chase women or buses, you will always be left behind. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:37:11 PM EDT
[#21]
She's still married. Don't date married women, even if "seperated".
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:37:27 PM EDT
[#22]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Do yourself a favor and wait until she’s divorced and gets her head on straight At last! A moral (and sane) response! |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:37:36 PM EDT
[#23]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I've made a career off being a risk taker with questionable ethics. 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:38:12 PM EDT
[#24]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You'll never realize your dreams without risk. 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:38:27 PM EDT
[#25]
Quote HistoryQuoted: SIHPAPP A nod to the old ways. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:38:58 PM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She's still married. Don't date married women, even if "seperated". This time a million |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:39:56 PM EDT
[#27]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I hope you'll be testifying for the husband when he argues she's abandoned the family residence and the marriage before its dissolution. Maybe you can get his child support reduced. I don't think any of that will be relevant during this century, and probably wasn't for most of the last one either. She can bang whoever she wants. No fault. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:40:01 PM EDT
[#28]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Destroy that poon. Definitely finish inside her too. Be a dad for two. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:40:22 PM EDT
[#29]
You came (pardon the pun) to the right place for relationship advice, OP.
Me? My little head does most of my strategic thinking. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:40:53 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She's still married. Don't date married women, even if "seperated". Absolutely horrible advice. She’s willing to fuck OP, who it seems is without female companionship since they broke up 14 years ago. In any case, she brings child support and alimony to the table. This could severely improve OPs financial situation if the cohabitate. Start thinking with your dick and your wallet. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:41:36 PM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She wants |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:41:55 PM EDT
[#32]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You're plan B. Speaking of which, pick up some Plan B op. Enjoy her visit! Now I regret that my son stole that Etch-a-Sketch from your house. Sounds like you'll need something to keep your ex-gf's kid occupied. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:42:42 PM EDT
[#33]
Eh, what's the worse that can happen?
And if she's pregnant already, you don't even need to put any work in. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:42:53 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You're plan B. No, that's breakfast before she goes home. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:42:56 PM EDT
[#35]
Quote HistoryQuoted: This time a million Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: She's still married. Don't date married women, even if "seperated". This time a million Prudes. Cat people prudes too. OP gonna slay some single mom crazy poon. Never in life will he ever have more wild sex. You all trying to trip him up into guilt or whatever. Let him have his cake and eat it too. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:43:08 PM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She went and had a kid with another guy and when that didn't work out she's turning to you out of desperation and you're wondering if you should take her back after not really knowing each other for 14 years and now have a step kid. Yeah totally go for it. This. She sees you as the safe bet she’d be willing to settle with. If it was sex only, she can get that in her town. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:43:09 PM EDT
[#37]
I have room in my place if they need to stay, doesn’t bother me none.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:44:13 PM EDT
[#38]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Speaking of which, pick up some Plan B op. Enjoy her visit! Now I regret that my son stole that Etch-a-Sketch from your house. Sounds like you'll need something to keep your ex-gf's kid occupied. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: You're plan B. Speaking of which, pick up some Plan B op. Enjoy her visit! Now I regret that my son stole that Etch-a-Sketch from your house. Sounds like you'll need something to keep your ex-gf's kid occupied. I was waiting for you to show up. Her kid and yours can be friends. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:44:16 PM EDT
[#39]
Beat her to it and ask her and the kid to move in.
Bonus points if she can't cook, doesn't clean, makes no money, and her mouth is only used to eat and complain.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:45:06 PM EDT
[#40]
Dear Pleasure Journal,.......
But really, FPNI. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:45:10 PM EDT
[#41]
She is an ex for a reason and sounds like a shitshow in the making. Why invite that drama into your life? Unless you love chaos over peaceful order, then go right on ahead.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:45:22 PM EDT
[#42]
She’s weighing her options. Part of that is revisiting past relationships that she believes could benefit her now.
She’s got several guys in orbit or will by the time you start contemplating a future with her. Tread carefully. Past relationships with the ability to contact are the lowest hanging fruit/most accessible. Not necessarily everything they want. |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:45:22 PM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Prudes. Cat people prudes too. OP gonna slay some single mom crazy poon. Never in life will he ever have more wild sex. You all trying to trip him up into guilt or whatever. Let him have his cake and eat it too. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: She's still married. Don't date married women, even if "seperated". This time a million Prudes. Cat people prudes too. OP gonna slay some single mom crazy poon. Never in life will he ever have more wild sex. You all trying to trip him up into guilt or whatever. Let him have his cake and eat it too. Thank you. Is bible study over yet? |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:45:22 PM EDT
[#44]
You need to hit it raw dog, make sure to really get in there. Let her hook you like a bass for the next 18 years. You owe it to yourself.
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:46:18 PM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You need to hit it raw dog, make sure to really get in there. Let her hook you like a bass for the next 18 years. You owe it to yourself.  Attached File |
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:46:19 PM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I have room in my place if they need to stay, doesn’t bother me none. 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:46:35 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Here's a little mock up of what to expect https://media.tenor.com/TqL66YKhM4cAAAAC/poundtown-hip-thrust.gif 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:47:15 PM EDT
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Day 1
Page 2 Change your phone number 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:47:44 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: She wants some known good cock. FIRST POST NAILS IT…and so should you! In for the AAR! 
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Posted: 5/25/2023 7:47:49 PM EDT
[#50]
I would be VERY wary of any involvement at this point. You don't know if her soon to be ex will be a nutty, possessive, "if I can't have her, no-one can" type". Plus, you don't know if she really is getting a divorce, or if she is just thinking about it.
I would make some polite excuses why I can't meet with her right now. I would give her at least sixty days after the divorce is FINAL,before I would even consider meeting with her. For all you know, she is only thinking about getting a divorce at some future time.. Keep in mind there are plenty of men who tell their lover they intend to divorce their wife, but never seem to get around to making a divorce final. Give her time to get the divorce finalized, and allow her a couple of months to cool off, then see if she still wants to meet with you. If she turns into a bar-fly, she may end up getting married again in that sixty day period. |
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