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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:36:00 PM EDT
[#1]
Uh no, if he’s not the father she’s SOL
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:37:49 PM EDT
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:40:15 PM EDT
[#3]
Lol
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:41:35 PM EDT
[#4]
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Uh no |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:43:42 PM EDT
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I've seen non-adoptive stepdads on the hook for CS when the bio father couldn't be found. If she can convince a SJW judge it was a common law marriage he might have to fight it. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Uh no |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:48:49 PM EDT
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He’s not a step dad, married to her or even ina sexual relationship It wouldn't surprise me if it did happen. Exactly how do you prove that you were not in a sexual relationship, anyway? |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:49:43 PM EDT
[#7]
common law marriage, possibly?
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Posted: 10/4/2018 6:55:40 PM EDT
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Actually a sexual relationship would have no bearing, he is not responsible for anything with someone else’s child, it’s that simple.
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:02:05 PM EDT
[#9]
Well, heres the deal...
I dated a chick for awhile after my divorce. We lasted 8 months or so. 2 years after we split, I get a letter in mail about child support. She had a kid, filed for welfare benefits and listed me as the father. I called bullshit, as I had been snipped before we started dating. It took 3 years of going through the courts to get it cleared up. I had to pay child support that entire time. I filed a civil suit for the child support I had paid to her after the family court cleared me as the responsible person. I won, I have collected $1,200 of the $25k I sued for. She has since moved to Maine and I doubt I will see another penny. |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:04:49 PM EDT
[#10]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You have me convinced, but possibly not the judge. It wouldn't surprise me if it did happen. Exactly how do you prove that you were not in a sexual relationship, anyway? |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:10:34 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Produce the rental agreement I’m sure he had her sign? In all of the history of the world, has there never been an instance of a landlord having sex with a tenant, even if she was paying rent? |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:41:47 PM EDT
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I had a girl live with me for a while, but it was a sexual thing. We were not dating but we had an arrangement were I would get off work at 3am and she would “pay rent”.
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:43:07 PM EDT
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I’m assuming that she would lie and tell the court that they were a couple.
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Posted: 10/4/2018 7:53:50 PM EDT
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Not in TX. Not in most states, because child support is either for biological children or adopted children. That doesn't happen through marriage, common law or otherwise.
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Posted: 10/4/2018 8:07:02 PM EDT
[#15]
Cool. Thank you guys.
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Posted: 10/4/2018 8:14:48 PM EDT
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I have a family member who has allowed a woman with a baby to live with him for free for several years. He is going to move out of state and she will basically be kicked out on the street. Even though it is not his baby, and they were not in a sexual relationship, I am afraid that she can probably go after him for child support. Am I correct? |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 11:14:06 PM EDT
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I have a family member who has allowed a woman with a baby to live with him for free for several years. He is going to move out of state and she will basically be kicked out on the street. Even though it is not his baby, and they were not in a sexual relationship, I am afraid that she can probably go after him for child support. Am I correct? |
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Posted: 10/4/2018 11:24:02 PM EDT
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Well, heres the deal... I dated a chick for awhile after my divorce. We lasted 8 months or so. 2 years after we split, I get a letter in mail about child support. She had a kid, filed for welfare benefits and listed me as the father. I called bullshit, as I had been snipped before we started dating. It took 3 years of going through the courts to get it cleared up. I had to pay child support that entire time. I filed a civil suit for the child support I had paid to her after the family court cleared me as the responsible person. I won, I have collected $1,200 of the $25k I sued for. She has since moved to Maine and I doubt I will see another penny. 
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Posted: 10/6/2018 11:10:57 AM EDT
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Is there already a legal dad or not?
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Posted: 10/6/2018 11:24:20 AM EDT
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Probably should have a rental agreement
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Posted: 10/6/2018 11:49:35 AM EDT
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Sadly in some states if you co habitate with a woman and child you have 'assumed' the role of a father and provider and yes you can potentially be liabel for financial support if you remove yourself from the role you accepted
1st hand info as i was a foreman on an electrician crew years ago and handed out paychecks to my guys so I could clearly see gross / net and all deductions on the stubs. One of the guys on my crew was paying child support on a kid that was not his biological kid and was simply the spawn of some chick he shacked up with for a short period of time. This was WA state around mid 1990s so laws may have changed by now |
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Posted: 10/6/2018 4:53:13 PM EDT
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Not in TX. Not in most states, because child support is either for biological children or adopted children. That doesn't happen through marriage, common law or otherwise. |
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