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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:12:29 PM EDT
Yes
Social contagion affects both men and women, the latter much more so |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:12:53 PM EDT
You have seen women go to the bathroom, right? They are communal. There is a reason there are no historical female explorers or female built civilizations.
Followers by nature. Real women anyway. Maybe some trans women are different. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:14:13 PM EDT
Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times.
Edit...I should rephrase that...not the guy's fault. "I've seen women who can't hold a relationship..." |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:18:21 PM EDT
When you see a cluster, you may or may not be seeing an anomoly.
From my observation, wives dump husbands after the kids leave home because he no longer adds value to their lives. Many good guys get dumped and dumped upon. Also, divorced women will tell married women that their lives are oh so much better now and that men are sorry bastards. This will begin to chip away at all but the strongest marriages. If you wife starts hanging out with divorced women, you need to have a talk with her. She needs to come clean on her feelings toward you and you can go forward from there. Divorced women are enemies of good marriages and the death of those that are sturggling. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:18:37 PM EDT
Seen it with a floor of orthopaedic nurses. Within two years there were 26 divorces out of 31 RNs.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:19:02 PM EDT
Women hate to see other women happy. If they're in a bad marriage they'll try to convince their friends that they are all in bad marriages and that a sex and the city lifestyle awaits all of them after divorce.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:19:45 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Seen it with a floor of orthopaedic nurses. Within two years there were 26 divorces out of 31 RNs. Age? How many were screwing the same physician? |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:20:38 PM EDT
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:21:03 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times. This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:22:18 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times. This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. This has not been my experience. 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:22:21 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. A good wife only associates with other respectable married women |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:27:33 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times." I have had this happen personally, and seen it happen in certain circles. Me and some friends all got dumped within 6 month because the girls thought the grass was greener on the other side. My buddy thought if he proposed to his ex-gf, she would change her mind. It took a couple weeks to convince him that was a bad idea. Also, don't let a single lady/divorcee be friends with married women. Their 'freedom' will ruin everyone elses marriage. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:27:34 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: A good wife only associates with other respectable married women Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. A good wife only associates with other respectable married women If she works she’s likely associating with all kinds of women and men both. Hell I work with an obese woman who I actively avoid. I still know about her Tinder exploits with a certain type of men 3 nights a week. I’m sure all the office women get all the details |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:29:59 PM EDT
Quote History MGTOW SQUADDD? |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:30:40 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: This has not been my experience. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times. This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. This has not been my experience. keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:31:11 PM EDT
Tell me about your friend and I will tell you who you are.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:32:03 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Age? How many were screwing the same physician? 24-47. Only the older women stayed married. Probably a few. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:32:15 PM EDT
Eddie Murphy explained this back in the 80's.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:36:54 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Eddie Murphy explained this back in the 80's. Half! |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:40:15 PM EDT
All social decisions that receive affirmation in friend groups create clusters among women. You see it in the decision to transition in teenage girls, too. One of them does it, everyone they know calls them strong and brave and independent, so their friends copy them. Given both the social and financial rewards given to women when they divorce, I can't see why there WOULDN'T be clusters.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:41:18 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: All social decisions that receive affirmation in friend groups create clusters among women. You see it in the decision to transition in teenage girls, too. One of them does it, everyone they know calls them strong and brave and independent, so their friends copy them. Given both the social and financial rewards given to women when they divorce, I can't see why there WOULDN'T be clusters. Divorced women are shunned in normal society |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:42:01 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Misery loves company. I've seen women who can't get a decent man try to sabotage their "friend's" relationship multiple times. This. If your woman is happy her single friends will work like ants to tear her down to their level. This has not been my experience. keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. They are just all really sweet. I've always made a point to be close with her friends and get to know them. I have all their numbers, we plan parties and stuff together. Three of them (all single) came over weekend before last and I broke out some wagyu rib caps and grilled for them. All of her close friends are assets in her life as far as I can tell. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:45:17 PM EDT
lol I can’t wait to show this thread to my wife.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:45:50 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: A good wife only associates with other respectable married women This is great advice. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:46:08 PM EDT
I guess I'm lucky.
Our best friends are getting divorced. The woman filed. My wife responded with "what a stupid bitch".
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:47:05 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: I guess I'm lucky. Our best friends are getting divorced. The woman filed. My wife responded with "what a stupid bitch". Sorry about your small paycheck
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:47:47 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: They are just all really sweet. I've always made a point to be close with her friends and get to know them. I have all their numbers, we plan parties and stuff together. Three of them (all single) came over weekend before last and I broke out some wagyu rib caps and grilled for them. All of her close friends are assets in her life as far as I can tell. Pics from Waygu rib cap 4 way parties? |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:48:35 PM EDT
27 year PI checking in...yes, divorces are very contagious among older wimmenz
They share each other's gripes and then suddenly are looking for flaws they never even noticed in their mates and often start trying to fix what isn't even there This seems to be especially prevalent in "empty-nest syndrome" menopausal and post menopausal ages. It's often exacerbated by sheer boredom. Some can look and almost act like a Bunko club or book group...only tear each other down instead. Misery loves company, and most women don't want things fixed when they complain, they just want someone to listen to them complain just my humble observations from the street |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:50:16 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man give himself and another guy a handjob at the same time before, and I was in the Navy!
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:50:39 PM EDT
Oh yeah. I’ve seen this more then once. My own mom worked to get her sister to divorce. Twice if you count telling her she should leave her second husband when he had a stroke.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:52:44 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: A good wife only associates with other respectable married women wtf is this? A woman who is married is only allowed to be friends with other women who are married?! 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:52:53 PM EDT
My friend's marriage is on the rocks right now. He said everything was fine until his wife's sister got divorced and she was using his wife as a soundboard for why her husband was shitty. Which made her thing about how he is shitty. So now they are in councling.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:53:16 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Oh yeah. I’ve seen this more then once. My own mom worked to get her sister to divorce. Twice if you count telling her she should leave her second husband when he had a stroke. Damn |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:54:00 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Pics from Waygu rib cap 4 way parties? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: They are just all really sweet. I've always made a point to be close with her friends and get to know them. I have all their numbers, we plan parties and stuff together. Three of them (all single) came over weekend before last and I broke out some wagyu rib caps and grilled for them. All of her close friends are assets in her life as far as I can tell. Pics from Waygu rib cap 4 way parties? ?? Click To View Spoiler |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:54:24 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man give himself and another guy a handjob at the same time before, and I was in the Navy! Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man give himself and another guy a handjob at the same time before, and I was in the Navy! 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:55:12 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man give himself and another guy a handjob at the same time before, and I was in the Navy! Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: keep in mind, though, you are dating a completely different type of woman, one in a career field not comprised of weak-willed smoothbrained follower-types. So I am not at all surprised that your experience is different. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man give himself and another guy a handjob at the same time before, and I was in the Navy!  |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:56:13 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: I have had this happen personally, and seen it happen in certain circles. Me and some friends all got dumped within 6 month because the girls thought the grass was greener on the other side. My buddy thought if he proposed to his ex-gf, she would change her mind. It took a couple weeks to convince him that was a bad idea. Also, don't let a single lady/divorcee be friends with married women. Their 'freedom' will ruin everyone elses marriage. I doubt you appreciate your own irony, but lol. GD is a riot. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:58:13 PM EDT
In the course of a forensic investigation of the (shared) home computer in my house during my divorce, numerous emails between my (now ex) wife and her “BFF” discussing the attributes of being divorced. Hell, I knew who her lawyer was going to be before she even retained him.
Also, said “BFF” is currently on marriage #4 if memory serves. Ex wife is neither married or dating anyone to my knowledge. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:58:33 PM EDT
Yep. They all sit and bitch about their marriages and how much better it would be alone so they pursue their dream men who really care about them.
When I divorced, our group of friends slowly started to fall apart and three out of the four couples eventually divorced. I think our divorce was the catalyst for the rest of them to get the courage up to do it also. The entire group was about the same age and varied in amount of time married , but right around that 10 years in thing. What's also weird is I have zero contact with any of them after all that shit went down and I moved out of the area. The one guy I hunted and fished with and he just stopped talking or answering my texts and eventually ended up marry some Filipino chick with a very thick mustache. The other guy became a hermit alcoholic and no idea on the other one. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 1:59:09 PM EDT
Thus proves the commonality between trailer parks and HOA's.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:03:57 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Divorced women are shunned in normal society You’re correct, but unfortunately we are no longer anywhere near a normal society. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:05:32 PM EDT
Absolutely.
You have to carefully control the environment your spouse is within to the best of your ability. Limit stress, limit exposure to immoral people and activities, and promote virtue and morality while also "leading by example". The ideal is not to have your wife work, but if she must work to counter the negative influences she is exposed to through active measures (promote Christian faith and increase exposure to moral women through various social activities). Reinforce Christian morality and do your best to encourage your wife to be social with women of deep faith. |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:05:39 PM EDT
Yes, my wife started one 22 years ago. I was a hated man among my couple friends as it spread.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:07:42 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Absolutely. You have to carefully control the environment your spouse is within to the best of your ability. Limit stress, limit exposure to immoral people and activities, and promote virtue and morality while also "leading by example". The ideal is not to have your wife work, but if she must work to counter the negative influences she is exposed to through active measures (promote Christian faith and increase exposure to moral women through various social activities). Reinforce Christian morality and do your best to encourage your wife to be social with women of deep faith. 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:07:45 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: 24-47. Only the older women stayed married. Probably a few. Interesting. Both groups are in the middle of that range. Does the cycle reverse and the group re marry in a cluster? Both groups the started paying more attention to appearance. Dressed nicer, make up, some started working out. Is there a component of trading comfort for excitement? |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:08:28 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Absolutely. You have to carefully control the environment your spouse is within to the best of your ability. Limit stress, limit exposure to immoral people and activities, and promote virtue and morality while also "leading by example". The ideal is not to have your wife work, but if she must work to counter the negative influences she is exposed to through active measures (promote Christian faith and increase exposure to moral women through various social activities). Reinforce Christian morality and do your best to encourage your wife to be social with women of deep faith.
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:10:45 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Absolutely. You have to carefully control the environment your spouse is within to the best of your ability. Limit stress, limit exposure to immoral people and activities, and promote virtue and morality while also "leading by example". The ideal is not to have your wife work, but if she must work to counter the negative influences she is exposed to through active measures (promote Christian faith and increase exposure to moral women through various social activities). Reinforce Christian morality and do your best to encourage your wife to be social with women of deep faith. If you have to control who your partner is allowed to talk to, to keep her from leaving you... I think you have a different inherent issue all together. 
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:11:23 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Age? How many were screwing the same physician? Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Seen it with a floor of orthopaedic nurses. Within two years there were 26 divorces out of 31 RNs. Age? How many were screwing the same physician?  Attached File |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:12:21 PM EDT
Quote History Quoted: Absolutely. You have to carefully control the environment your spouse is within to the best of your ability. Limit stress, limit exposure to immoral people and activities, and promote virtue and morality while also "leading by example". The ideal is not to have your wife work, but if she must work to counter the negative influences she is exposed to through active measures (promote Christian faith and increase exposure to moral women through various social activities). Reinforce Christian morality and do your best to encourage your wife to be social with women of deep faith.  Attached File |
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Posted: 6/29/2021 2:12:27 PM EDT
Definitely was a contributing factor in my first marriage. Ex wife was super jealous of her slutty single friend's and felt like she was missing out.
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