My wife just got a job in Wilmington and will be moving down in January, with me to follow as soon as I can find either local or location independent employment. If it turns out to be a while before I can come down I plan to visit a lot. My schedule gives me most weekdays off.
It looks like there are three Blue lodges in Wilmington, if I'm reading that correctly. I plan to visit all three, hopefully a few times each, before choosing one to join.
I'm currently a Master Mason here in Michigan, and will probably keep my dues paid up here too if that's allowed both places.
If you're in Wilmington, I'd appreciate hearing from you either here or by PM with a little about your lodge and what you like/don't like about it. This is a big decision and I want to make it with as much information as possible.