It really all depends on what you want/expect... Get laid, get back together, clear some things up, just be friends, ect.
Generally, from your statement:
but i still miss her.
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I would tell you to stay the hell away. But, that would depend on things like, did she hurt you because you broke up ? Or was her behavior (ie: was she being a mean bitch) that hurt you... and also ow long has it been.
If you do decide to go see her, which I get the vibe you are going to do. Do not be jelous, don't try and exact revenge, don't rehash the past... Conduct yourself like a grown man and gentelman.
Don't think just because things go well, you hang out, get laid, whatever... That your getting back together.
A number of things could be going on with this woman, that you want no part of. She could be on the rebound and your "safe." She could be lonely. She might miss you and gain some personal self-esteem from that fact that you'll show up at her call, at which point, she will split... There are a ton of reasons.
In my experience, the second time rarely works out, unless it's been a number of years since you've seen each other.
It ain't worth the trouble.
Hell, she just may want to get laid, if you can handle that...go for it.
What it comes down to is simply this. Can you handle whatever get thrown you way ? If you say no, don't go.
FWIW: I am very good, best friends, with an exgirlfriend. However, after we broke up (it wasn't blody) we didn't see each other for almost 2 years. We saw each other in a bar and have been friends ever sense... And yea, we occasionally, when both single, sleep together.