My wife's weight has fluctuated up and down since I first met her. 15/20 pounds sometimes more. Not once in 21 years have I ever mentioned her weight. She lives in loose pants and sweat shirts in the winter and t-shirts and shorts in the summer. I wear t-shirts and jeans everywhere except work. What she chooses to wear is none of my business because she is wearing it..not me. When she does get dressed up to go out (not very often with 2 young kids) she looks fantastic. I married her, not her wardrobe!!