The only way to erase bad memories is to make new ones.

I'm pretty sure this is what kevin costner said about women in the Wyatt Earp Movie  ,
They Die and Run Off, Thats the Simple Truth of it    !!!!!     and here's what I have to say , It's Time to Get On With Living    Say Hello, to your Dad for me when you see him again  !!!!!!!!!   Ken

Trying to stay occupied.  Shes on my mind constantly though.  Mutual friends tell me she is not "right" and is definitly running from the whole commitment thing.  There's a lot I have learned recently about things that were being fed to her from friends, etc.  She has a few single friends who lke her to be single also.  One asked me out already, one who had been my inside track on info.  She just asked that I not use her to be spiteful.  Then I understand she got all quiet and upset when confrontd by a coworker who asked what she was thin,ing.  Coworker called me said she itterally rean away when I was brough up she just said he needs to get on with life and wa then asked what she was running from and she glanced watery eyes and walked away without an answr.  I'm dying tryiong to forget her.  I will but damned is it tough.

Quoted: "Hun I love you more than life itself but not enough to get my heart broken again." Cowboy up my friend and find a nice girl that will adore you.

The possibilities are endless!

Quoted: Our secrets out... you know loose lips... errrr nevermind...

And again!

You SIR, need a walkabout!

I do it every now and again, took off for one in the middle of my divorce.  

You simply pack a backpack, lots of MREs mind you, grab the tent, sleeing bag, coleman lanturn, and whatnot, and head for the hills.   Not a got damn thing a week solid of camping, hiking, sitting and thinking can't help.

O2BNMUD:
I believe you were quoting me ("The best way to get over a woman is to get under another one!"), which was actually an adaptation of a girl's quote (substitute guy for woman).

Kharn

Valkyrie, hang in there brother. I am in a relationship right now that has me a little
frustrated. I found myself falling in love with this girl and to tell you the truth, I'm not
so sure she is as dedicated to the relationship as I am. I am trying as hard as I can to
distance myself emotionally from her while still seeing her. I started out sleeping with her
every night then all of a sudden we go a week without even seeing each other. Maybe she needs her space or whatever but this hurt me that we haven't seen each other all this week(tommorow
we will). I actually felt as though she almost broke up with me and I got very emotional
and depressed because I've missed her. I started to feel like I did when I got divorced
in '97. Unable to sleep, loosing weight, thinking about her all the time etc.  Everytime
she would call I would be so high on life. Then when she wouldn't, I would be so upset and
wishing she would call. Let me tell you, you can't let another person control your emotions
like this. I know it's easy to say all these wise things when you are feeling good but
it is the truth. The scary thing is you almost feel as though you have no control over
your own emotions. I am a pretty tough guy, used to be a cop, seen some nasty stuff. But
the emotions involved in a breakup or bad relationship are very hard to deal with. This may not
be right or ethical but I also am always on the lookout to hook up with another girl because I feel
like this one is not going to well. I do this because it gives me options and makes me realize
that there are other women out there that want me too. The only way I will stop looking is if
I am married. This alows me to maintain a realistic outlook that she is not the only women
out there. Keep it together brother.

For some women,

The fucking you get ain't worth the fucking you get.  

GM

Quoted: For some women, The fucking you get ain't worth the fucking you get.   GM

THATS WHAT MY GRANDFATHER ALWAYS SAYS.

Quoted: For some women, The fucking you get ain't worth the fucking you get.   GM

I heard it this way:

The fucking you receive ain't worth the fucking you get!



Semper Fi

I'm gonna take a freight train, down at the station
I don't care where it goes
Gonna climb me a mountain, the highest mountain, Lord,
Gonna jump off, nobody gonna know
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman, she been doin' to me
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman been doin' to me
I'm gonna find me a hole in the wall, gona crawl inside and die
That lady, mean ol' woman Lord, never told me goodbye
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman she been doin' to me
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman been doin' to me
Gonna buy me a ticket now, as far as I can, ain't never comin' back
Take me Southbound, all the way to Georgia now, till the train run out of track
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman, she been doin' to me
Can't you see, can't you see, what that woman been doin' to me.



Hang in there Valkyrie. If it isn't right, there's nothing you can do to make it right. You just have to go on.

Quoted: i GOTTA GO TO BED.  tRY AND START OVER TOMORROW.  gOOD NIGHT

Holy crap she f-cked up your CAPS LOCK key!! Is nothing sacred??

Herpes no big deal.  I found out a while ago that I have both herpes simplex 1 and 2.  I never had a cold sore or anything and figured I didn't have it.  But, I was informed by my mother, that I contracted herpes simplex 2 when I was three years old around my mouth.  When they checked, I had already at some point contracted herpes simplex 1 prior to age 3.  Most americans, and people in the world have herpes.  Around 80-90%.  The good thing for me is that you can't catch it twice, so I'm immune, and since I don't have reccuring outbreaks, I'm not contageous.  
Most people contract herpes prior to age 10.  Herpes 1 and 2 can both infect the mouth or genitals, as well as other parts of the body.  Condoms do not protect against herpes.  Herpes does not require intimate contact.  I.E.  share a drink, chew on a pen, kiss a relative, or taste someone elses food and you now have herpes.

There are medications to control outbreaks for people that have them, but most people do not have outbreaks, and don't even realize they have the disease.

Hep B and HIV are the STDs to worry about.  There is a vaccine for Hep B, get it.

Quoted: Remeber the thread about the girl that was commitment phobic howe we were trying all that.  Found out today that she's done with me etc.  All the while strung me along making empty promises.  I hope she fucking dies a thousand deaths.   She did somthing to me soo fucking bad.  I love her but I want to hate her, in fact I wish these feeling would end right now.

Sorry if this is incorrect,

...but weren't you the guy who fooled around on his wife while you were still married?

Maybe I don't know the whole story...


...Karma......

Your Grandfather sounds like a very Wise Man

Quoted: Herpes no big deal.  I found out a while ago that I have both herpes simplex 1 and 2.  I never had a cold sore or anything and figured I didn't have it.  But, I was informed by my mother, that I contracted herpes simplex 2 when I was three years old around my mouth.  When they checked, I had already at some point contracted herpes simplex 1 prior to age 3.  Most americans, and people in the world have herpes.  Around 80-90%.  The good thing for me is that you can't catch it twice, so I'm immune, and since I don't have reccuring outbreaks, I'm not contageous.   Most people contract herpes prior to age 10.  Herpes 1 and 2 can both infect the mouth or genitals, as well as other parts of the body.  Condoms do not protect against herpes.  Herpes does not require intimate contact.  I.E.  share a drink, chew on a pen, kiss a relative, or taste someone elses food and you now have herpes. There are medications to control outbreaks for people that have them, but most people do not have outbreaks, and don't even realize they have the disease. Hep B and HIV are the STDs to worry about.  There is a vaccine for Hep B, get it.

Dude, your figures there have to be WAY off. According to Wikipedia on genital warts,

The most recent data from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) suggests that 20% of men and 25% of women in the United States have HSV2

Dude I just dumped my girl on Monday she was a lying, cheating worthless bitch. I was in love with her very much until I started finding things out. Its been a ruff week for me too but it gets easier every day. I am already just about over it. You will be too. Just give it a few days/weeks.

Quoted: Quoted: Herpes no big deal.  I found out a while ago that I have both herpes simplex 1 and 2.  I never had a cold sore or anything and figured I didn't have it.  But, I was informed by my mother, that I contracted herpes simplex 2 when I was three years old around my mouth.  When they checked, I had already at some point contracted herpes simplex 1 prior to age 3.  Most americans, and people in the world have herpes.  Around 80-90%.  The good thing for me is that you can't catch it twice, so I'm immune, and since I don't have reccuring outbreaks, I'm not contageous.   Most people contract herpes prior to age 10.  Herpes 1 and 2 can both infect the mouth or genitals, as well as other parts of the body.  Condoms do not protect against herpes.  Herpes does not require intimate contact.  I.E.  share a drink, chew on a pen, kiss a relative, or taste someone elses food and you now have herpes. There are medications to control outbreaks for people that have them, but most people do not have outbreaks, and don't even realize they have the disease. Hep B and HIV are the STDs to worry about.  There is a vaccine for Hep B, get it. Dude, your figures there have to be WAY off. According to Wikipedia on genital warts, The most recent data from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) suggests that 20% of men and 25% of women in the United States have HSV2

That is for HSV2 occuring on the genitals, I'm talking for herpes total HSV1 and HSV2, in all locations.  Most common of course are the oral variety, then genital, then around the eye(ewww) and fingers.  Both HSV1 and HSV2 can infect the mouth and the genitals.  If you see sores, stay away, and that means anywhere.  If a girl with a cold sore gives you a BJ, you can catch genital herpes(either HSV1 or HSV2), condom or not.

Oh, and genital warts are HPV, not herpes.  There are many vaccines nearing production for a bunch of the HPVs.

Also, health class was BS.  The photos they showed were horrific, and typically from people with immune system disorders.  If they wanted to be helpful, they would show photos of normal cases where the symptoms are very subtle.

Its only pussy, get over it. There's another one waiting for you at Walmart. Get out there and find her.

2 years ago I was married and began working for a plastic surgeon.  Basicly I am around women 24-7 and have come up with the only simple conclusion;

Women are fucking nuts, they will suck every drop of life and happiness from you because they enjoy it.

That is the only universal truth there is.  Men have always tried to understand women, well there you go.  My suggetion is to get broadband and a download porn program.  It is the only way.

Dude, remember this:

"That which doesn't kill you will only make you stronger..."

Shit happens for a reason...You may not realize why, until many years down the road...

No sense getting upset over things you can't control.