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I've told the girlfriend and best friend that Funeral for a friend ( Elton John ) is to be played if and when my time comes.
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Sorry, I think its more 'when' than 'if'.
If anyone wants to sit around and have a damn ceremony over my dead carcass, I hope somebody calls the ATF in for a no knock cavity search for the "Black Panther party meeting". Ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Throw my ass in a shredder when you are [b]sure[/b] I am done breathing!
I dont go to funerals and I dont want to be at mine. My dead ass is not there, and my body is tissue in transition. I will never for the life of me figure out what the human need for this long drawn out ritual worship of a non-living person is all about, kinda like the roadside shrines.
My Moms oldest sister died and they had the funeral. I was like a son to her, right age to fit in line with the 5 of them. A couple of her sons decided we were going to have a little chat about why I was so disrespectful 'to her' and not inside the church with them during the services. I told them, ' I came by and saw her 2 days before she died(post surgery clot) and we sat and laughed and chatted and talked for an hour & half.
[b]Thats[/b] exactly how I want to remember her, and it is. I dont need to see her lifeless body in some hollow tribute to anything. Do I miss her? Sure. Would seeing her in a casket help that? No. It would only change the mental picture I have of her. I can still see her smile, big and bright, I can still hear her laughter as we chatted about life, something and nothing. Every person who was ever dear to me has this same positive memory in my mind, not a morbid, flower covered shrine, lifeless body memory.
Matthew 8:22 - But Jesus said unto him, Follow me; and let the dead bury their dead.
Im not dead, I will pay a gravedigger to deal with bodies.