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Posted: 10/12/2005 5:08:49 PM EDT

[#1]

I'm not a "What is the defination of is" like Pres Bill.

It is......

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:13:05 PM EDT

[#2]

Quoted:
Is it cheating? Yes.

Is it as bad as sexual intercourse? No.

But it's a definite betrayal of trust.

+1

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:16:13 PM EDT

[#3]

This thread will go on for a couple of days for sure.

Yes, its cheating. Ask me, I'm Jody, the guy your girl sleeps with while you are in a different state (Steve).

Shit. Only thing worse than Jody is the cheating whore who will sleep with him. All servicemen know what I am talking about. I feel like a total asshole, and I did NOT know she was still "with" the guy.

Karma will get me for this.

Sorry, not trying to hijack, just venting, b/c I despise infidelity.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:17:06 PM EDT

[#4]

I think that if someone else chokes your chicken, it's cheating.

Danny

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:18:34 PM EDT

[#5]

He SHOULD NOT tell his wife. Even if their marriage lasts, everytime she gets pissed off she will go to what I call the "Becky" card. I cheated on my girlfriend with a girl named Becky. I told her about it. Now, everytime she gets pissed, I have to hear about how I f*cked Becky. God damn I wish I'd kept my mouth shut.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:22:09 PM EDT

[#6]

Quoted:

Yes, its cheating. Ask me, I'm Jody, the guy your girl sleeps with while you are in a different state (Steve).

Jody, you prick! I've heard about you all my life! You have whoopee with my girl and then drink all my friggin' beer before you run off.

I'm gonna get you Bastard!

I want my beer back, you can have the g/f!

Danny

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:26:05 PM EDT

[#7]

Quoted:
Is it cheating? Yes.

Is it as bad as sexual intercourse? No.

But it's a definite betrayal of trust.

+1

It's not nearly the same as sexual intercourse, nor should it be punished as such, but it's still cheating.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:27:11 PM EDT

[#8]

Quoted:
He SHOULD NOT tell his wife. Even if their marriage lasts, everytime she gets pissed off she will go to what I call the "Becky" card. I cheated on my girlfriend with a girl named Becky. I told her about it. Now, everytime she gets pissed, I have to hear about how I f*cked Becky. God damn I wish I'd kept my mouth shut.

Was Becky hot?

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:28:23 PM EDT

[#9]

Quoted:
I have a friend( really!) that is married and has had an "experience" with another women. Basically they kissed passionately and she fondled his "chicken".

Is this cheating? Is it just as bad as going ALL THE WAY?

I know Bill Clinton didn't have sexual relations with that woman, it was just oral sex. What is your idea of cheating? Does penetration have to occur? Or is it merely the act of placing yourself in that position?

If you do "anything" passionately with someone else that involves exchanging ANY bodily fluids....

....that is Verboten.

I know.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:31:47 PM EDT

[#10]

Defiantly cheating. Like it was said before if you would not like your wife to do it with another guy then dont do it yourself!! I think he should tell her and not keep it to himself, otherwise it is going to eat him alive. Making him feel even worse.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:33:31 PM EDT

[#11]

Baby, I f%cked her. I make love to you.

Posted: 10/12/2005 5:59:09 PM EDT

[#12]

Gentlebrains....beware those with the XX chromosome.

They are programmed to find you "attractive". It's that XY "thing" we got going.

That is not a problem....unless you're attached to another XX.

So many XX's, so little time.

If you look at it from a mitochondrial perspective....it kinda takes the fun out of it.

And... perhaps.... you can see why XX isn't "amused".

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:00:14 PM EDT

[#13]

Lack of loyalty, so it's just as bad.

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:00:52 PM EDT

[#14]

Quoted:
I have a friend( really!) that is married and has had an "experience" with another women. Basically they kissed passionately and she fondled his "chicken".

Is this cheating? Is it just as bad as going ALL THE WAY?

Technically, no and no. She might be a little upset if shes a high-strung type of mate.

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:10:22 PM EDT

[#15]

Becky was not hot. She was average. But she was my best friend, and I had wanted to fuck her since high school. So it was the Prom Night fantasy, only ten years later. Regret doing it- NO. Regret my confession- HELL YES. Every God Damned Day- "You just had to fuck Becky. You just had to fuck Becky."

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:27:47 PM EDT

[#16]

Quoted:
Cheating is going beyond the mutually agreed upon rules of the relationship.

If your wife says you can go bang anyone except for redheads and she won't care, then you can screw Maryanne but you need to leave Ginger alone.

Exactly. Others were getting at this indirectly with the "would you do it in front of the wife?" comments, but this is more correct.

If your wife is a conservative Amish woman who is offended by you staring at another woman's ankles, and you know that to be a condition of your relationship, then doing so is cheating.

If your wife takes you to strip clubs and buys you lap dances (or sends you to strip clubs with the guys with $200 for lap dances), then lap dances aren't cheating in your relationship.

Cheating is about BREAKING TRUST with regards to whatever boundries were set. The boundry line won't be the same, or even necessarily anywhere close, between different couples, but rarely does anyone not know where THEIR line is.

I could handle my GF hugging a guy and even a quick peck on the lips, in front of me or not, as long as it is done in such a way that it is clearly plutonic to everyone. EVERYONE knows the difference between a sexual kiss and a plutonic one.

At the same time, I could become upset by an email conversation she was having, even if the guy was in Outer Mongolia and they would never meet, if she was not being faithful IN HER HEART to the relationship.

It isn't always about physical contact, but usually about intention and how the person responds to others coming on to them.

I don't break the rules set by my relationships, and I end them if/when she does. No excuses, no second chances.

-Troy

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:34:41 PM EDT

[#17]

Quoted:

At the same time, I could become upset by an email conversation she was having, even if the guy was in Outer Mongolia and they would never meet, if she was not being faithful IN HER HEART to the relationship.

-Troy

That's it right there. Anything that goes beyond that is cheating.

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:37:24 PM EDT

[#18]

Absolutely cheating.

Oral sex is cheating too, I don't care what Bill Clinton says.

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:37:35 PM EDT

[#19]

If the roles were reversed, how you feel about your wife?

Posted: 10/12/2005 6:53:30 PM EDT

[#20]

before I read all this, I HAD to post my wife's response.

"Yes, it is cheating, but it isn't as bad as going all the way. He should probably not tell his wife because it would just make her wonder what else he is capable of."

I'm checking her for hairy palms now......then I am out for a HJ..

Posted: 10/12/2005 7:39:03 PM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Is it cheating? Yes.

Is it as bad as sexual intercourse? No.

But it's a definite betrayal of trust.

+1

It's not nearly the same as sexual intercourse, nor should it be punished as such, but it's still cheating.

Just a hint ya'll. To women, often the emotional side of cheating is harder than the physical. Cheating is a reason for a trip to the curb PERIOD.

Posted: 10/12/2005 7:43:30 PM EDT

[#22]

Its cheating... no matter if its a kiss or a rub

- Just have him repent and send the chick my way

Posted: 10/12/2005 7:57:45 PM EDT

[#23]

Yes it's definitely cheating.

To avoid this altogether. Do everything in your power to please your mate. Ekie and I have been married 12 years and are more in love today than when we were married. Your focus must be your spouse and your family. I do everything I can to make sure Ekie is happy, taken care of and loved. I do everything in my power to spoil my man and make sure he is happy!!! I clean the house, take care of our ekie children, take care of Ekie. And he does the same. If your home is taken care of properly, there will never be a need to look elsewhere!

Mrs. Ekie

Posted: 10/12/2005 7:57:49 PM EDT

[#24]

IBTFM

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:07:13 PM EDT

[#25]

And another marriage bites the dust....

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:15:47 PM EDT

[#26]

No passionate kissing of his chicken?

Boy, he screwed up.

On the basis of a risk-reward evaluation, he did not do very well.

He gets voted off the island.

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:22:01 PM EDT

[#27]

Chicken rubbing is just anoying now if she was chokeing his chicken it would be cheating.

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:30:23 PM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:
I't obvious that moral decline is evident when you have to ask such questions.

If i stick it in your girlfriends pooper....is she really cheating?

It's 12:30am here and the word "pooper" just made me nearly piss myself.

And yes, that is definitely cheating. How would he feel if some guy rubbed his wife's chicken or turkey or whatever.

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:48:43 PM EDT

[#29]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Maybe if the guy's wife "fondled his chicken" a little more, he wouldn't be getting some on the side.

I don't blame Clinton for cheating on his lesbian wife...just for lying under oath.

Well I guess we all know which poll answer you chose!

Yes, but B-Splat does acknowledge that it was cheating on the part of Clinton. B-Splat does not thing Clinton should be punished for that in and of itself.

Posted: 10/12/2005 8:49:47 PM EDT

[#30]

Quoted:
I would expect to have my dick caught off at worse........and punched in the face at best if I did that........unless you have an "open marriage" its not far from sleeping around. I'm not married but I'd expect the same treatment as say getting busted for a long night of Hookers and Blow*........

*No - I don't do drugs*

But you do do hookers?

Posted: 10/12/2005 9:02:40 PM EDT

[#31]

IMO it doesnt have to be sex to be cheating. If you put your self in any position where it could lead to anything esle than it is cheating. IMO anything other than a brief hug, peck on the cheek or a handshake, is cheating.

And for those guys that argue otherwise, stop for a minute and think how you would feel if you saw your wife being kissed passionately by another man while he rubbed her groin, or vice versa.

Posted: 10/12/2005 10:30:17 PM EDT

[#32]

Quoted:
Would your "friend" have done this with "his" wife present?

If the answer is no then there you go.

Yup.

Of course, this could lead to some interesting possibilites.....

Posted: 10/12/2005 11:49:30 PM EDT

[#33]

Gets popcorn and ....

Posted: 10/13/2005 12:54:14 AM EDT

[#34]

Devil's Advocate:

Well, what led to them getting that far in the first place?....Maybe if the wifey had been takin' care of business at home, this wouldn't have happened.

Emotional Affairs?....maybe so , and maybe it could have been avoided had she not started with a Gastronomic Affair.

{/DAdvocate off}

Actually the fella just set himself up for the "big screw"....now he's got a 2nd woman to please, because she can now hold this over his head and manipulate him as she sees fit.

Or woman #2 may , on her own , tell the wifey so that HER conscious is clear...your friend is screwed either way.

Best he can hope for is a friendly parting of the ways , and to never speak of this incident ever again.

Sucks to lose your house over some spit and wrinkled pants.

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