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Posted: 1/3/2006 11:03:52 AM EDT

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I'm kind of stunned right now.

I take it that is different than "invited".

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:04:14 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

I think you need to re-check your math.

One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

So in this case 2 guys involved means the One Penis Rule was violated.....You sir need to go back to Kindergarten!

Still don't get it? The one penis rule is violated when MORE THAN ONE guy is involved, more than two would be the two penis rule, of which, there is no such thing, because the one penis rule is the supreme rule and it supercedes all other penis rules.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:04:35 AM EDT

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if you are shocked by that then youd shit your drawers if you knew how common it really was. consenting adults not hurting anyone...who cares, dont be such a prude.

I couldn't care less if they're doing it, but I think mentioning it to an outsider in casual conversation is strange, or is testing to see what their reaction would be to an offer to be involved.

bingo

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:05:39 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:06:16 AM EDT

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Sounds like she was testing the waters

The water is cold around here.

(voice from the next urinal) "and deep"

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:06:25 AM EDT

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if you are shocked by that then youd shit your drawers if you knew how common it really was. consenting adults not hurting anyone...who cares, dont be such a prude.

I couldn't care less if they're doing it, but I think mentioning it to an outsider in casual conversation is strange, or is testing to see what their reaction would be to an offer to be involved.

bingo

Yup, that's definitely what they were doing, testing your reaction, or planting the idea in your head.

Either that or they heard from somewhere else that you guys like to swing already!

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:06:40 AM EDT

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What do the women look like?

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:06:47 AM EDT

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Why would it matter? They are doing what they enjoy. You do what you like, they do what they like. It's really no big deal.

Doesn't matter to me. I just never pictured them being into that sort of thing.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:07:24 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

I will not take part in any sex act that involves more than One Penis.....but if a chick wants to take 2 inside her....well I will not be involved!

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:08:24 AM EDT

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Sounds like she was testing the waters

The water is cold around here.

(voice from the next urinal) "and deep"

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:09:51 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

I will not take part in any sex act that involves more than One Penis.....but if a chick wants to take 2 inside her....well I will not be involved!

Can't contribute your share?

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:11:12 AM EDT

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Sounds like she was testing the waters

The water is cold around here.

hence the hot tub!

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:12:11 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

I will not take part in any sex act that involves more than One Penis.....but if a chick wants to take 2 inside her....well I will not be involved!

Guess she can scratch you off her list of possibles then.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:12:15 AM EDT

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if you are shocked by that then youd shit your drawers if you knew how common it really was. consenting adults not hurting anyone...who cares, dont be such a prude.

I couldn't care less if they're doing it, but I think mentioning it to an outsider in casual conversation is strange, or is testing to see what their reaction would be to an offer to be involved.

bingo

Yup, that's definitely what they were doing, testing your reaction, or planting the idea in your head.

Either that or they heard from somewhere else that you guys like to swing already!

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I know a couple into that. That is exactly what they did to us. It was brought up after a few drinks during a girls night out. My wife though a little caught off gaurd was not really suprised. There is alot more of this going on out there then most people know.

I see no trouble with this at all. Just grown adults enjoying one of lifes pleasures.
CH

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:12:17 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

I think you need to re-check your math.

One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

So in this case 2 guys involved means the One Penis Rule was violated.....You sir need to go back to Kindergarten!

DEAR LORD you are dense.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:13:54 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

I think you need to re-check your math.

One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

So in this case 2 guys involved means the One Penis Rule was violated.....You sir need to go back to Kindergarten!

DEAR LORD you are dense.

More notably....he said "penis" three times in one post.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:17:04 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

I think you need to re-check your math.

One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

So in this case 2 guys involved means the One Penis Rule was violated.....You sir need to go back to Kindergarten!

DEAR LORD you are dense.

One guy, One Penis=no violation
Two Guys, 2 penises involved=violation
More than 2 guys, more than 2 penises involved=violation x2
and so on do you understand or are you just retarded?

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:17:06 AM EDT

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Delayed x2 tap.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:17:53 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

I think you need to re-check your math.

One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

So in this case 2 guys involved means the One Penis Rule was violated.....You sir need to go back to Kindergarten!

DEAR LORD you are dense.

More notably....he said "penis" three times in one post.

No More _enis talk from me I promise!

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:20:13 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

So what's the problem?

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:21:04 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

So what's the problem?

The women want their fun too ya know.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:24:43 AM EDT

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I personally don't see this type of behavior is sustainable within a relationship but I guess everyone is different.

Agreed

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:24:46 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

So what's the problem?

The women want their fun too ya know.

yes they certainly do

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:26:38 AM EDT

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I personally don't see this type of behavior is sustainable within a LONGTERM relationship but I guess everyone is different.

Agreed

for justifiable clarification....no sense in knocking a good ol' fashioned session of xxx monkey sex.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:28:32 AM EDT

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Messing around with your girlfreind/wife with another random chick=acceptable.
Messing around with your girlfriend/wife with another man = unacceptable

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:31:33 AM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

It would seem anything over one guy violates the rule...unless yours is missing.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:31:55 AM EDT

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One Penis rule defined. When more than One Penis is involved in a sex act.
Violations are as follows:
Male,male,female 3 some
Any sex act involving 2 males by themselves.
Male,Female,Male,Female 4 some....et al.

Sounds like your "violations" are skewed towards men fulfilling THEIR fantasies while ignoring any the women might have.

So what's the problem?

The women want their fun too ya know.

Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.

As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:34:19 AM EDT

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Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.
As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:35:53 AM EDT

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Sounds like she was testing the waters

The water is cold around here.

(voice from the next urinal) "and deep"

(voice from the other side) These pipes are small too.

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:36:18 AM EDT

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+1 for the other couple "sizing you up".

On the other hand, who gives a crap? Consenting adults, and all that.......

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:37:58 AM EDT

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This thread is BULLSHIT without pics!!!

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:39:09 AM EDT

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Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.
As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

Uh, so your point is that he should comfortable with leting a spouse schedule sausage parties or she will go fuck other guys?

Posted: 1/3/2006 11:41:21 AM EDT

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Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.
As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

Uh, so your point is that he should comfortable with leting a spouse schedule sausage parties or she will go fuck other guys?

I said everyone has their comfort zone. Since he mentioned not to tell his wife that, I said I hoped they COULD talk about what WOULD please her. You don't need to read into it beyond that.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:27:58 PM EDT

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Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.
As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

Uh, so your point is that he should comfortable with leting a spouse schedule sausage parties or she will go fuck other guys?

I said everyone has their comfort zone. Since he mentioned not to tell his wife that, I said I hoped they COULD talk about what WOULD please her. You don't need to read into it beyond that.

I guess I'm just old fashioned. I would suspect that in any marraige I myself would be involved in, if my wife came to me and said she wanted to "swing" in order to "spice" things up, her has would be scheduled for a relatively prompt meeting with the curb. Based on the level of dedication I would expect her to have from me, I would anticipate any request along those lines from me to be similarly catestrophic.

To each his own, I suppose.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:28:14 PM EDT

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I'm kind of stunned right now.

Meh, it really shouldnt be your concern what another couple does in the privacy of whatever.

Unless you are sad that you werent invited. lol.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:29:39 PM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

You may be a troll. You may not be a troll. Either way, that's pretty funny.

ETA: You need to check your math, though.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:35:56 PM EDT

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Anything involving more than 2 guys violates the One Penis Rule!

You may be a troll. You may not be a troll. Either way, that's pretty funny.

ETA: You need to check your math, though.

Maybe trolls don't have penises???

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:36:07 PM EDT

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dammit we asked you not to tell anyone!

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:36:08 PM EDT

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I'm kind of stunned right now.

Why? Because you and the Mrs weren't invited?

No. Just did not see that one coming.

In your title you say "Friend of Ours" define Ours. "Ours" as in you and Mrs Bama-Shooter or "Ours" ARFCOM Member?

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:36:19 PM EDT

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I guess I'm just old fashioned. I would suspect that in any marraige I myself would be involved in, if my wife came to me and said she wanted to "swing" in order to "spice" things up, her has would be scheduled for a relatively prompt meeting with the curb. Based on the level of dedication I would expect her to have from me, I would anticipate any request along those lines from me to be similarly catestrophic.

To each his own, I suppose.

Spicing up ones love life does not require going outside the marriage to do so. It DOES require being willing to open up to your partner, communicating openly both by talking and listening without judgement, and being willing to try new things that maybe you haven't tried before,etc.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:37:49 PM EDT

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Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

Uh, so your point is that he should comfortable with leting a spouse schedule sausage parties or she will go fuck other guys?

Please pardon my French, but this one belongs in the "way fucked up" category.

So now preserving your marriage is defined as "letting your wife get porked by other men."

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:39:21 PM EDT

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Shhhh...... don't tell my wife that.
As fun as it might be I think it would ruin a relationship. I had a girl ask me several years ago what I thought about a threesome. I told her that I would but not with anyone I would marry.

Everyone has their comfort zones.Hopefully your wife DOES share what she would like to do with you to spice things up. Ya gotta be able to communicate with each other or you wind up like these guys that are always posting about getting divorced.

True

I was just joking about my wife's needs.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:40:12 PM EDT

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dammit we asked you not to tell anyone!

Couldn't help myself.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:40:42 PM EDT

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Spicing up ones love life does not require going outside the marriage to do so.

No, dude.

Marriage PROHIBITS going outside the marriage to spice things up.

It DOES require being willing to open up to your partner, communicating openly both by talking and listening without judgement, and being willing to try new things that maybe you haven't tried before,etc.

So if my wife said "Gee honey, I'd like to get gang banged by the membership of the local Golds Gym" that I'm supposed to "listen without judgment" in order to save my marriage?

Dude, put down the bong.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:41:59 PM EDT

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Thats gross!

Bet you wont look at them the same any more.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:42:00 PM EDT

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I'm kind of stunned right now.

Why? Because you and the Mrs weren't invited?

No. Just did not see that one coming.

In your title you say "Friend of Ours" define Ours. "Ours" as in you and Mrs Bama-Shooter or "Ours" ARFCOM Member?

Friends outside of ARF.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:44:23 PM EDT

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It DOES require being willing to open up to your partner, communicating openly both by talking and listening without judgement, and being willing to try new things that maybe you haven't tried before,etc.

Some things do draw judgement, and that's based on values, morals and the basic foundation of marriage!

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:44:47 PM EDT

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I guess I'm just old fashioned. I would suspect that in any marraige I myself would be involved in, if my wife came to me and said she wanted to "swing" in order to "spice" things up, her has would be scheduled for a relatively prompt meeting with the curb. Based on the level of dedication I would expect her to have from me, I would anticipate any request along those lines from me to be similarly catestrophic.

To each his own, I suppose.

Spicing up ones love life does not require going outside the marriage to do so. It DOES require being willing to open up to your partner, communicating openly both by talking and listening without judgement, and being willing to try new things that maybe you haven't tried before,etc.

Communication is good, but up to a point.

Part of the marriage partnership is recognition that there are things you don't ask. Period. Your spouse is ENTITLED to listen WITH JUDGEMENT, and to terminate your ass with extreme prejudice if you ask the spouse to do things that cross the line.

I tend to think that sex is not just a menu of acts or positions, its supposed to be a mutually enjoyable act of intimacy. And there are some requests, even those not involving other people, which your partner might RIGHTLY consider degrading or disgusting. And part of having a successful relationship is knowing when _NOT_ to go there. Especially in this day and age where everyone pretty much tries things on for size and "kicks the tires" during the dating process, neither partner should expect the other to do things they outright hate just to make the other partner happy just because they're now married.

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:48:11 PM EDT

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here is the foursome now:

Posted: 1/3/2006 12:48:40 PM EDT

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aaah...I dunno. Depends on who the friends were, if I wanted to boink his wife or not.

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