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Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. You know that's exactly what she said. That there no way she can just be my friend. I guess its kind of telling when I look back on it. I've tried to introduce her to guys I know that are single because I wanted her to have someone to care about that loved her. But she kept getting bad apples for some reason. I guess the premise for When Harry Met Sally is true.... men and women can't JUST be friends. You know, it really is difficult to find a guy that you want your friend to get with. I've tried countless times to get her with someone so that she could just enjoy someone else only to have the whole ting blow up in her face. Godamn, its hard to find a good man..... there should be a song about that. If I knew this years ago I might not have gotten married, lol. |
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway View Quote Well... There's always the three-way to really fuck things up. |
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Well... There's always the three-way to really fuck things up. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Well... There's always the three-way to really fuck things up. Would turn into a three way fight to the death |
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"an" not and.
I'm no grammar Nazi but take that! Men and women can't be friends. Ever. Didn't you ever watch "When Harry met Sally"? |
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Quoted: its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway View Quote |
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway View Quote Doesn't sound like much of a friend nor do I believe that men and women can be platonic friends for the most part |
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Would turn into a three way fight to the death View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Well... There's always the three-way to really fuck things up. Would turn into a three way fight to the death Yeah, been there did that, always turns out badly. I've warned some of my younger friends to stay away from that, they didn't listen and paid the price. Just drink and don't be angry about it. She is the one with the problem, not you. You did the right thing. Hey, someday down the road maybe she'll meet her "soulmate" and talk to you again but honestly I wouldn't worry. Cheers and don't drive to get more, invite another friend over (guy) and tell him to bring the beer, lol. |
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You've got to be kidding me. You're married and this is what has you ticked off and drinking in the morning? You're just damn lucky your wife hasn't figured out what's going on. When that happens I call dibs on ammo. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway I didn't say this was an algebra equation, and my wife knows almost all (minus the sexual wantings of which I was just made overtly aware of hours ago) of the goings on between myself and my friends. |
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Why drink just cause youre angry?
Embrace the seething hatred bruh. Its like an evil sidekick, keeping you warm, and away from fucktards. Just let it simmer, like a good chili. No alcohol needed. |
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Yeah, been there did that, always turns out badly. I've warned some of my younger friends to stay away from that, they didn't listen and paid the price. Just drink and don't be angry about it. She is the one with the problem, not you. You did the right thing. Hey, someday down the road maybe she'll meet her "soulmate" and talk to you again but honestly I wouldn't worry. Cheers and don't drive to get more, invite another friend over (guy) and tell him to bring the beer, lol. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Well... There's always the three-way to really fuck things up. Would turn into a three way fight to the death Yeah, been there did that, always turns out badly. I've warned some of my younger friends to stay away from that, they didn't listen and paid the price. Just drink and don't be angry about it. She is the one with the problem, not you. You did the right thing. Hey, someday down the road maybe she'll meet her "soulmate" and talk to you again but honestly I wouldn't worry. Cheers and don't drive to get more, invite another friend over (guy) and tell him to bring the beer, lol. I just drinking and watching movies and trying to distract myself. I'm not going to go to the store, or mow the lawn. I'm just mad things turned out the way they did, especially with me not having a say so. |
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Quoted: I didn't say this was an algebra equation, and my wife knows almost all (minus the sexual wantings of which I was just made overtly aware of hours ago) of the goings on between myself and my friends. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway I didn't say this was an algebra equation, and my wife knows almost all (minus the sexual wantings of which I was just made overtly aware of hours ago) of the goings on between myself and my friends. |
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Just and FYI. View Quote an, not and. It's my job to help you get from angry to pissed |
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You can't drink all day unless you start early. Go for the gusto!!!
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Hmmm, after reading the why, all i got is non coc compliant for you OP
OMGWTFBBQ111!! , two chicks want me to fuck them, waahhhhhh. |
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Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. Yep, congrats on being upset that you are no longer disrespecting your wife by maintaining a relationship with a woman who has no respect for your wife or marriage as a whole |
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Yep, congrats on being upset that you are no longer disrespecting your wife by maintaining a relationship with a woman who has no respect for your wife or marriage as a whole View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. Yep, congrats on being upset that you are no longer disrespecting your wife by maintaining a relationship with a woman who has no respect for your wife or marriage as a whole Thanks guy |
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What are you drinking? This will help determine how angry you really are. http://res.cloudinary.com/ratebeer/image/upload/w_250,c_limit/beer_496.jpg Poor guy hates himself. |
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She's at work today. But yeah, that will be an interesting conversation.FML Starting on beer 8 and watching Night of the Living Dead View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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also, what did your wife say about it? She's at work today. But yeah, that will be an interesting conversation.FML Starting on beer 8 and watching Night of the Living Dead Romero or Savini? |
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also, what did your wife say about it? She's at work today. But yeah, that will be an interesting conversation.FML Starting on beer 8 and watching Night of the Living Dead Romero or Savini? Romero for the win dude |
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I don't drink a lot, maybe a mixer or 2 fingers of whiskey 2-3 nights a week.
I choose to drink less or not at all when I'm angry or feeling strong emotions. Don't spend money (on booze or anything else) or play with intoxicants when you're feeling bad. |
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It sucks, but it sounds like it's best that your "friend" proceeds to GTFO if she wants you to fuck with your marriage. You're better off in the long run.
Lose the canned piss and pound some weights if you're pissed off. Or keep boozing but don't drive or do any "hold my beer and watch this" type stuff |
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Beer 8? Text her with the full scoop after Number 10. That way she understands why you're sitting dead drunk on the couch when she gets home from work later today. Trust me on this one. It'll be OK. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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also, what did your wife say about it? She's at work today. But yeah, that will be an interesting conversation.FML Starting on beer 8 and watching Night of the Living Dead All op's wife will see a broken hearted drunk, broken hearted over another woman. Let's hope she believes you when you say you didn't cheat. Get your shit and priorities straight OP. I do have to say good job on not cheating though. |
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I predict an episode of cops will be filmed later and OP may be on it.
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What are you drinking? This will help determine how angry you really are. http://res.cloudinary.com/ratebeer/image/upload/w_250,c_limit/beer_496.jpg No wonder you're angry. THIS. I'd be angry too, if all I had to drink was that swill. |
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Exactly why married people shouldn't be good friends with people of the opposite sex. It ends badly. Yep, congrats on being upset that you are no longer disrespecting your wife by maintaining a relationship with a woman who has no respect for your wife or marriage as a whole Thanks guy In for the "ARF curse" thread |
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Sleep it off, come to your senses and then tap dat ass and the world will turn.
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Please, you can help by NOT HELPING, Okay ? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Lots of people have drinking issues. Lots of people really like their lives after they quit. Lots of help available out there and here. The guy is angry and drinking in the morning. It's not right to pretend like we're all sure he's just fine. Ok people typically don't do that. |
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In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway Your wife should be your best friend. Historically, in the long ago time when there was less divorce, spouses weren't best friends, they were spouses. This spouse=bff thing is newfangled. |
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Just found this thread.
CSB. Made me feel a whole lot happier with my tumbler of Johnny Walker Black. Thanks, OP. |
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What are you drinking? This will help determine how angry you really are. http://res.cloudinary.com/ratebeer/image/upload/w_250,c_limit/beer_496.jpg That wait until the hangover sets in tomorrow. You will be in pain and pissed off. |
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What are you drinking? This will help determine how angry you really are. http://res.cloudinary.com/ratebeer/image/upload/w_250,c_limit/beer_496.jpg Well at least now we know WHY you're angry. I'd be mad too if that was all I had to drink. |
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its complicated but it involves a woman. Surprise. Longs story short, she was one of my best friends but wanted to get sexual. I can't do that, I'm married. She knows and didn't care, but I'm not going to do that. She said that without a romantic relationship she wants nothing to do with me. Not even friends anymore. First world problems and all that. In short, l lost my best friend. Or one of them anyway View Quote If your wife isn't your best friend you married the wrong woman. The friend you lost was smart and did the smart thing. I know it hurts. It hurt her too. And when I say "I know..." that's not sympathy or empathy, that's experience. |
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