Me, NONE.
Sort of disturbing that no one wants kids, including myself. Can we get some reasons?
Mine would be that I don't want to put a kid through life in this messed up country, where everything I would try to teach would be immediately counteracted as soon as the kid goes to school.
Don't get me wrong, kids are great. As long as their someone elses, and I can fill them with candy before handing them back to their parents.
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As for myself, I had a shitty childhood, one that included serious psychological abuse from my father, neglect from Mom, way below average self esteem due to harassment/beatings from my fellows at school. I just don't like people that much because I've suffered alot. I don't like myself all that much at times either. Call me whacked in the head, maybe.
As for the wife, she also doesn't like people that much, which is strange since she has a job dealing with the public (pharmacist).
There's also some pretty serious genetic diseases in both sides of our families, and there is a fairly high chance we'd produce kids with numerous problems. Now if it were possible to "genetically engineer" out the defects, that'd eliminate this particular reason not to have kids.
We're both pretty selfish, and neither of us wants to deal with the hassles of kids. We have money to spend, time to do with as we please, and time to pay attention to each other. I see no reason to screw that up. It's not as if a) there's a shortage of people, and b) unlikely that the kids would take care of us in our old age anyways...