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dude, if you live life wondering and worring....you are doomed with girls.
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Im 22... She is probably 20-22 also. I know there are going to be alot of good opportunities to talk to her in the future, as we are in a group and doing a project together. But I dont want to keep "delaying it" then it might end up awkward as in "why didnt I ask her earlier". And yea I have 3 friends in the class and they kind of hit on her but 2 of them have girlfriends so I have the best chance I think. It sucks though because when I was coming back from the bathroom and saw her in the hallway, I just smiled and wanted to say something but I froze up and didnt know what to say. And I have had more "physically" attractive girls give me compliments. But its just something about her shes not a 10/10 or anything. But her personality and everything combined makes her a 10 in my book (from what I know about her so far, the way she acts, etc) Seriously... you have got to be trolling. |
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Be straightforward and ask her if she'd be interested it foing to the movies or something with you.
If she says no then say "FUCK IT I'M FOING ANYWAY" Seriously though. Say something to her before someone else does or then you'll really be kicking yourself. |
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I met a couple of chicks that " thumped " my head like that... And ... I expect you will meet a lady that falls for you - like you have, some day too.... so keep that in mind when you do. Get away from those GOOFBALL friends you have... they're more of an obstruction than you realize. You'll need to get close enough to her to talk privately... get her numbers, and ask her out... or go spend time somewhere. Be honest when you talk to her.. tell her how you really feel. You may be amazed how good it goes.... No shit... Paging Dr. Swingset... |
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Guys why even joke about dumb stuff.
Im just asking a legit question, im not Don Juan or whatever. Im asking what is the best thing to do in this situation? Ask her to study, ask her out to a movie... etc Thats why im describing the situation, obviously the best thing to do is ASK HER OUT. But to do what? I know she is going to say yes, unless she is currently in a relationship. I guess I kinda miscommunicated what I was trying to ask you guys. Quoted:
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Im 22... She is probably 20-22 also. I know there are going to be alot of good opportunities to talk to her in the future, as we are in a group and doing a project together. But I dont want to keep "delaying it" then it might end up awkward as in "why didnt I ask her earlier". And yea I have 3 friends in the class and they kind of hit on her but 2 of them have girlfriends so I have the best chance I think. It sucks though because when I was coming back from the bathroom and saw her in the hallway, I just smiled and wanted to say something but I froze up and didnt know what to say. And I have had more "physically" attractive girls give me compliments. But its just something about her shes not a 10/10 or anything. But her personality and everything combined makes her a 10 in my book (from what I know about her so far, the way she acts, etc) Seriously... you have got to be trolling. Im not, its a legit question. Im guessing every girl you ask out you bring them to the same place everytime? |
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I will quote a wise, wise man...
Listen to me, I got no reason to lie to you, don't make the same mistakes I made when I was young. Fuck a lotta women kid, not just one woman, a lotta women. You do not want to regret this 5-10 years down the road... |
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Guys why even joke about dumb stuff. Im just asking a legit question, im not Don Juan or whatever. Im asking what is the best thing to do in this situation? Ask her to study, ask her out to a movie... etc Thats why im describing the situation, obviously the best thing to do is ASK HER OUT. But to do what? If you have to think this hard about it, and you are this uptight... you are going to fail in epic fashion. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4pXfHLUlZf4 |
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Also wanted to add... Since were in a group, worse case scenario I can get EVERYONES email and I will have hers. But I dont want to be a loser who tries to hit on / ask a girl out over the internet LOL. I remember one of our group members as we were leaving the class after we discussed some homework. He mentioned something like "we should do this often" (referring to getting our group together and going over homework) and she said "yea we could have a study group after class". So maybe I can get her to study with me. i want to try to sit directly next to her but this other fat girl in our group is always blocking. Let me try to summarize your problem. First. It's not clear WHY you like her. You've pointed out that she's attractive and that you're pretty sure her parents are rich. The only other things you've mentioned as great features about here is that she "respectful" and "well-mannered". Honestly, to me, those sound more like criteria for buying a dog or a horse or something - but not really the basis for wanting to spend a lot of time with another human being. Second, your post above seems to be all about trying to figure out some "clever" plan to somehow lure her in, or contrive some way to trick her into a date or something. Again, it's not like you're out in the woods with a shotgun and trying to call a turkey towards your blind, or trying to get a buck to come in towards the salt lick, so you can "bag" them (Hey, animal analogies are working really well in this post ). I hope I'm providing some idea of why you are coming across as either pretty creepy - or just kind of clueless. Instead of over-thinking this, and creating all kinds of scenarios and plans in your head, just force yourself to ask her out to lunch or something. Nothing big, nothing significant - just lunch. You don't need to tell her anything beyond that you'd like to get to know her better. (At this point, you should NOT show her how you carved her name into your thigh last night, or reveal to her that you not only know where she lives, but also know which trees in her yar have a good view fof her bedroom ). |
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Just forget it im not getting any advice. You got plenty of advice. You just don't want to use it. |
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Just forget it im not getting any advice. What? You frakking cry-baby! Fuck, if you are asking the introverts on this board you need some better advice. Go to one of the PUA boards and she is yours. http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ Don't tell her about your guns, Arfcomm or your canned bean/bacon stockpile, either. Two books you need to read are "The Game", and the "Mystery Method". I haven't read the "Rules of the Game" yet but it is written by the same folks and it falls into the same catagory. And about 90% of the advice on this board is bad, no offense guys but most of it is really bad. I learned some PUA techniques from a friend of mine that has pulled more hot poon than anyone else I know. These women are quasi-famous Hollywood socialities and his advice is GOLDEN, find the dude you know that is always getting tail. You don't need to do everything he does, but takes what works, be cool, be clever, and most of all be confident. |
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what exactly are you looking for???
GO FOR IT BRO!, SHE WANTS YOUR JOHNSON, AND SHE IS RICH!!! ... or what? |
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This thread reminds me of that scene in Family Guy where God is drunk and "building" Rosie O'donell.
"You can't put a Vagina on that man!" |
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Whys everyone so mean lol?
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach..............
Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. |
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Whys everyone so mean lol? Am I posting this in the wrong section? HOTD forum requires you to be a Team Member, sorry. ETA: Wait, where in FL is this happening? |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" |
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Whys everyone so mean lol? Am I posting this in the wrong section? I already gave you good advice. I guess you're just a wuss. |
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~snip~ Don't tell her about your guns, Arfcom or your canned bean/bacon stockpile, either. ~snip~ No shit ... once you get to know her... she may be another Nazi Pelosi. |
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Whys everyone so mean lol? Am I posting this in the wrong section? No one is being mean, per se. You are just a little, well.... young. When you pour your heart out on a message board to ask advice of the internets, you get what you get. roll with it. Additionally, stay away from that chick - she uses her teeth a little too much. |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. This You gotta grow some balls, man. Chicks dig confidence. |
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Good advice here: Dating Advice
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~snip~ Don't tell her about your guns, Arfcom or your canned bean/bacon stockpile, either. ~snip~ No shit ... once you get to know her... she may be another Nazi Pelosi. Actually she HATES communists. Which is a change up from the hippy SAVE THE ENVIORMENT women! But anway to those who helped thanks, forget it I got this! I just need to make sure the fat girl doesnt take the seat next to her. |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" And with that, I just lost the game. |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" And with that, I just lost the game. You bastard, now I did too |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" And with that, I just lost the game. Asshole |
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Just forget it im not getting any advice. What? You frakking cry-baby! Fuck, if you are asking the introverts on this board you need some better advice. Go to one of the PUA boards and she is yours. http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ Don't tell her about your guns, Arfcomm or your canned bean/bacon stockpile, either. Two books you need to read are "The Game", and the "Mystery Method". I haven't read the "Rules of the Game" yet but it is written by the same folks and it falls into the same catagory. And about 90% of the advice on this board is bad, no offense guys but most of it is really bad. I learned some PUA techniques from a friend of mine that has pulled more hot poon than anyone else I know. These women are quasi-famous Hollywood socialities and his advice is GOLDEN, find the dude you know that is always getting tail. You don't need to do everything he does, but takes what works, be cool, be clever, and most of all be confident. Dude theres no way im dressing like that mystery guy. he wears goggles to a night club, I may be a little stupid sometimes but im not that stupid! He also wears make up LOL http://www.nydailynews.com/blogs/ilovetowatch/images/mystery.jpg You don't need to go full Mystery dude. But if you had that guys skill and confidence, you wouldn't be on a gun board asking a bunch of SHTF, survivalist, gun petting, camo-wearing, introverts for advice about women. No disrespect all, but most of you guys are the ANTI-POON when it comes to women. The only differance is that I am not an introvert. I am very extrovert and I used these guys advice (PUA's) and I have seen my number sgo up substantually (like 20) in the past two years. Food for thought. |
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Whys everyone so mean lol? Am I posting this in the wrong section? You posted this in arfcom GD. You'd have better luck posting this on 4chan. |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" Just curious were you home schooled? No I had a lot of girls like me in highschool, the girl would come up to me and say "hey my friend likes you" and I would try to avoid them because I was scared... /facepalm If the things in red are actually true and you are not trolling.......... What I said before is harsh albeit true. With that said I am feeling a little bit sorry for you. I am not a big supporter of seeing a therapist but it seems like this would be a good idea for you. You really need to find a way to overcome your anxiety. There is nothing to be scared of. The worst that can happen is a girl turns you down. It happens to everyone so there is no need to feel bad about yourself when it happens to you. There will be plenty that say yes. Now stop whining on here and get some help if you can't man up without it. |
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It is pretty obvious you have never been laid so try using this approach.............. Go up to the girl and say to her 'I am a nerdy shy guy with a horrible sense of self worth so I have never been able to talk a girl into fucking me. Would you like to pop my cherry?' If this doesn't work go back to masturbating until you grow a fucking set of balls and can talk to a woman like a man!! Seriously though..... girls your age do not like the pussy type guy you are making yourself out to be so either grow up or get used to whacking off watching porn. I understand, I had a hard time getting over social anxiety so I am a little behind in the "game" Just curious were you home schooled? No I had a lot of girls like me in highschool, the girl would come up to me and say "hey my friend likes you" and I would try to avoid them because I was scared... /facepalm If the things in red are actually true and you are not trolling.......... What I said before is harsh albeit true. With that said I am feeling a little bit sorry for you. I am not a big supporter of seeing a therapist but it seems like this would be a good idea for you. You really need to find a way to overcome your anxiety. There is nothing to be scared of. The worst that can happen is a girl turns you down. It happens to everyone so there is no need to feel bad about yourself when it happens to you. There will be plenty that say yes. Now stop whining on here and get some help if you can't man up without it. hey, I have gotten over social anxiety a while ago. I became best friends with a very talkative guy. He always asked me questions and forced me to talk and I just became more comfortable and now dont mind talking with people. I do get anxious in certain situations still though..... but im happy that I got over that crappy stage from before. |
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usually if you dont have what it takes to ask her out, or find a way to do it, it wont work anyways.
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