That is something hard to answer unless you have been put into that situation. Which thankfully I have not.

You have to search in your heart on whether or not you can save your marriage. If you and your wife are getting a long a lot better now because of this. Then I say try and work it out. But make sure you are doing it for all the right reasons. Because if not,it will haunt you for the rest of your life. You will just have to wait and see how it all turns out. Does your wife want things to work out?

Cheating on your spouse no matter what the problems you are having in the home is unexcusable. For one thing it should have never happened. But,unfortunately no one talks to each other anymore. You need to have communication in your marriage,or you'll be lost.

Anyway,I really do hope things work out for you. But if they don't,you'll know it wasn't meant to be.

bluewolf

pdm, condolences on a bad situation. I hope you work it out.

Zonan, I'm with you, I wasn't trying to come off as attacking anyone(and glad you didn't take it that way). The subject just pisses me off. You have a guy who loves his wife, his family, doing the right thing, and his wife pisses all over him and the marriage.

Tim