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1. How so? 2. She's gone around with Billy Badass, she's used to having a badass, and she pined for a nice guy, has him, but he's 'too nice.'" 3. It's a line I've heard so many times before. 4. So yeah, she's stupid to leave him. 5. Cannot have it both ways. View Quote 1. Because she's leaving her pussywhipped boyfriend. 2. And she wants right back in to his arms. 3. I bet. Why haven't you changed your game up then? If you know the winning formula go with it. 4. Probably not. Even if the guy has money, it sounds like a pretty dysfunctional relationship for one reason or another. 5. Nope, which is why she's going back to fucking men instead of dorks. |
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Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. There's two sides to this. Yes, she wants the handsome bad-boy to fuck. But he's not going to provide the financial security she needs to raise her boy. She needs to find the best compromise, as we all do. |
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Quoted: I am not justifying her douchebag attraction. I am explaining her being repulsed by the beta male. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. Many simply misinterpret douchebaggery for strength. Plenty of men do the same. I am not justifying her douchebag attraction. I am explaining her being repulsed by the beta male. I'm not disagreeing at all, just pointing out where people make the mistake of conflating alpha with dickhead. You see it on here constantly. |
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There's two sides to this. Yes, she wants the handsome bad-boy to fuck. But he's not going to provide the financial security she needs to raise her boy. She needs to find the best compromise, as we all do. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. There's two sides to this. Yes, she wants the handsome bad-boy to fuck. But he's not going to provide the financial security she needs to raise her boy. She needs to find the best compromise, as we all do. So she just might get pregnant by her bad-boy, and then tell her male provider that the baby has "your eyes". Get the DNA test, it is the only way a man can know for sure. |
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I don't 'know the winning formula.' View Quote https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAmCjqVkFg&list=PLE55F580AB012D5E3 Now you do. If you ever get the chance, I suggest you listen to the show. Patrice Oneal was revolutionary with his relationship theory. |
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At least she admits it. Hopefully after she dumps him, she won't be one of those girls who cry: "OMG! Where are all the nice guys??!!?"
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It's entirely possible to treat her how she wants to be treated, and still be a gentleman Man.
Getting her to be a slut in the bedroom doesn't mean he can't make her breakfast in the morning. Holding the door open for her doesn't mean he must avoid looking at her ass. Listening to her opinion(s) doesn't mean letting her 'run over' him. And so on. The requirements aren't exclusionary. It's entirely possible to be both at the same time. |
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Always remember: NO GOOD DEED GOES UNPUNISHED.
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Women don't dislike nice guys, they dislike doormats. A guy can be strong, masculine, and nice.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAmCjqVkFg&list=PLE55F580AB012D5E3 Now you do. If you ever get the chance, I suggest you listen to the show. Patrice Oneal was revolutionary with his relationship theory. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I don't 'know the winning formula.' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hAmCjqVkFg&list=PLE55F580AB012D5E3 Now you do. If you ever get the chance, I suggest you listen to the show. Patrice Oneal was revolutionary with his relationship theory. Everyone, I shit you not. Listen to this. |
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Turn the tables on the "ladies" and have more than one option yourself. It drives them crazy.
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Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. Sorry but the guy who rides a Harley and drinks a lot is not a strong person. The guy who gets up at 5am to work, then goes to school all night to better himself, is a strong person. The premise of the "crazy gene" is a female who constantly makes poor choices that negatively influence her life or the lives around her. Tell me, which of the above men will provide that "crazy gene" stigma for her? |
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Sorry but the guy who rides a Harley and drinks a lot is not a strong person. The guy who gets up at 5am to work, then goes to school all night to better himself, is a strong person. The premise of the "crazy gene" is a female who constantly makes poor choices that negatively influence her life or the lives around her. Tell me, which of the above men will provide that "crazy gene" stigma for her? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. Sorry but the guy who rides a Harley and drinks a lot is not a strong person. The guy who gets up at 5am to work, then goes to school all night to better himself, is a strong person. The premise of the "crazy gene" is a female who constantly makes poor choices that negatively influence her life or the lives around her. Tell me, which of the above men will provide that "crazy gene" stigma for her? And, yet again, not justifying her attraction to dirt bags. I am explaining her being physically repulsed by a wimp. |
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Weird ain't it? She really loved him except for the abuse and instability and being inattentive to her needs. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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yet she doesnt know what that is. Yes she does, she says it in the highlighted sentences, she's tired of her pussy boyfriend because she wants a real man in the house. The 'real man' that she had to get a restraining order against? Weird ain't it? She really loved him except for the abuse and instability and being inattentive to her needs. Most of our domestics are what I call 'revolving door' domestics. Restraining Orders are demanded up the ass.. but when it comes to going for the final, it is "I can't do that to him, I love him." |
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There's a difference between a guy that will stand up for himself and her and an abusive d-bag. There's a difference between a man capable of emotion and apathy and one that is a meek pile of goo that counts on others to solve their problems and cannot stand alone. A strong self sufficient man certainly does not have to be and I would say is not a domineering or abusive man.
I think it's perfectly acceptable for a woman not to be interested in some co-dependent, submissive male, when things go bad no body wants that guy in their corner unless he has some redeeming skill, but I reckon if this guy brought bags of money from an in demand skill set she wouldn't be complaining. A few millenia of needing a man to protect/provide, whether instinct or social conditioning, is not simply undone by a decade or two of the media telling women they should want a bitch with a penis. |
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'Instead of playing the stupid 'men need to be men' and the 'bitches be sluts card' I'm sticking with the communication, how the fuck does it work card. He is far less experienced than I am in the bedroom, and yet I do not know how to let him know what I like, because he is not keeping up with me in that department. I'm going to take damaged good for 500, Alex. View Quote Good point. How difficult is it to say, "I want you to lick around here and here, while you have a finger in here rubbing my G-spot. I'll whisper corrections while you're doing it." I don't have ESP and don't magically know what makes you feel good unless you tell me. Some like a dildo in their ass while getting fucked. Left to my own devices, I will make sure that I get off. |
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It's on a pedestal....
You can be headstrong, confident with a slight badboy edge and still be a good man. Lots of women confuse strong attributes in a man with those of an attention whoring douche bag. Those women a emotionally immature. But nice guys actually do finish last. Being nice is far from everything. |
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My take is that the guy here is probably a wimpy metrosexual type.
But he's really a goddamned fool if he doesn't make with the fruit plate. Bitches love fruit plates. |
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Man needs to grow some balls and she needs to get past her issues, too.
Two way street and they're a horrible match. Yeah, she'd probably end up with an abuser but it seems like she already knows it.
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need to find the dude and let him know this lady wants him for his money. View Quote Then you better warn him about all women. That's not all women want, but they need financial security. There is nothing wrong with that. I need a good-looking, kind and faithful woman. There is nothing wrong with entering into a contractual agreement (marriage) where we both get what we want. |
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All women are attracted to the Alpha Male. This guy is acting like a beta and she is repulsed. Here are a couple of links to very interesting reading. This is not about abuse and in fact is biblically correct. It is about being a strong MAN. And being the head of the family and leader in your marriage. Alpha male I did not learn this until after a divorce following a very long marriage, but looking back I see so many truths, she quit seeing me as the Alpha male. Read and learn gents. It is all true http://dalrock.wordpress.com/ http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html |
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She should suck start a .45 and spare the world from her fucking whining.
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It's entirely possible to treat her how she wants to be treated, and still be a gentleman Man. Getting her to be a slut in the bedroom doesn't mean he can't make her breakfast in the morning. Holding the door open for her doesn't mean he must avoid looking at her ass. Listening to her opinion(s) doesn't mean letting her 'run over' him. And so on. The requirements aren't exclusionary. It's entirely possible to be both at the same time. View Quote Yep. Mr. Nice Guy trying too damn hard. |
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In before she leaves him for a "bad boy" and end up getting cheated on and abused for 20 years before she realized she wasted her youth with a POS and gets a divorce.
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How so? She's gone around with Billy Badass, she's used to having a badass, and she pined for a nice guy, has him, but he's 'too nice.'" It's a line I've heard so many times before. So yeah, she's stupid to leave him. Cannot have it both ways. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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He's wrong. She has the nice guy with the fiscal comfort, and she's getting ready to leave his ass. How so? She's gone around with Billy Badass, she's used to having a badass, and she pined for a nice guy, has him, but he's 'too nice.'" It's a line I've heard so many times before. So yeah, she's stupid to leave him. Cannot have it both ways. Of course you (she) can. You can be a 'good' guy without being placating / subservient / demurring. You can be "alpha" without being domineering / abusive / belittling. A lot of people assume you're either 'alpha' or beta. A good relationship requires degrees of both from the man. |
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So she just might get pregnant by her bad-boy, and then tell her male provider that the baby has "your eyes". Get the DNA test, it is the only way a man can know for sure. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. There's two sides to this. Yes, she wants the handsome bad-boy to fuck. But he's not going to provide the financial security she needs to raise her boy. She needs to find the best compromise, as we all do. So she just might get pregnant by her bad-boy, and then tell her male provider that the baby has "your eyes". Get the DNA test, it is the only way a man can know for sure. Overall, the percentage of fathers who are unknowingly raising a child that is not biologically their is around 4%. It's higher in certain groups depending on race, age of the mother, etc. So most woman are having the child of the men they're with. But it is an interesting statistic nonetheless. |
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1. Because she's leaving her pussywhipped boyfriend. 2. And she wants right back in to his arms. 3. I bet. Why haven't you changed your game up then? If you know the winning formula go with it. 4. Probably not. Even if the guy has money, it sounds like a pretty dysfunctional relationship for one reason or another. 5. Nope, which is why she's going back to fucking men instead of dorks. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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1. How so? 2. She's gone around with Billy Badass, she's used to having a badass, and she pined for a nice guy, has him, but he's 'too nice.'" 3. It's a line I've heard so many times before. 4. So yeah, she's stupid to leave him. 5. Cannot have it both ways. 1. Because she's leaving her pussywhipped boyfriend. 2. And she wants right back in to his arms. 3. I bet. Why haven't you changed your game up then? If you know the winning formula go with it. 4. Probably not. Even if the guy has money, it sounds like a pretty dysfunctional relationship for one reason or another. 5. Nope, which is why she's going back to fucking men instead of dorks. so haw many restraining orders do you have against you ? just curious since the original guy had one and you define him as a real man |
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Overall, the percentage of fathers who are unknowingly raising a child that is not biologically their is around 4%. It's higher in certain groups depending on race, age of the mother, etc. So most woman are having the child of the men they're with. But it is an interesting statistic nonetheless. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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As Dr. Swingset would say... Bitch got the crazy gene. Nothing crazy about it. hard wired biology. women want to fuck a strong man to create strong children that will live. That shit is biological. they can overcome it mentally, at this woman has determined she must. But at the end of the day her body screams out for a strong man to protect her, provide for her, lead her, and, yes, fuck her ever living brains out. There's two sides to this. Yes, she wants the handsome bad-boy to fuck. But he's not going to provide the financial security she needs to raise her boy. She needs to find the best compromise, as we all do. So she just might get pregnant by her bad-boy, and then tell her male provider that the baby has "your eyes". Get the DNA test, it is the only way a man can know for sure. Overall, the percentage of fathers who are unknowingly raising a child that is not biologically their is around 4%. It's higher in certain groups depending on race, age of the mother, etc. So most woman are having the child of the men they're with. But it is an interesting statistic nonetheless. Can you source that statistic? I've heard a few numbers thrown around, often higher than that. |
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You can be a 'good' guy without being placating / subservient / demurring. You can be "alpha" without being domineering / abusive / belittling. View Quote And I agree with that 100%. But I still think she's being ridiculous in not appreciating the good guy for who he is. Just saying. |
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Then you better warn her about all women. That's not all women want, but they need financial security. There is nothing wrong with that. I need a good-looking, kind and faithful woman. There is nothing wrong with entering into a contractual agreement (marriage) where we both get what we want. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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need to find the dude and let him know this lady wants him for his money. Then you better warn her about all women. That's not all women want, but they need financial security. There is nothing wrong with that. I need a good-looking, kind and faithful woman. There is nothing wrong with entering into a contractual agreement (marriage) where we both get what we want. I like pie, She likes money, It's an acceptable arrangement. |
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And I agree with that 100%. But I still think she's being ridiculous in not appreciating the good guy for who he is. Just saying. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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You can be a 'good' guy without being placating / subservient / demurring. You can be "alpha" without being domineering / abusive / belittling. And I agree with that 100%. But I still think she's being ridiculous in not appreciating the good guy for who he is. Just saying. I understand, but if he's (excuse the semantic short cut) being completely beta with no alpha, I can see why she's unhappy with him. |
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Every woman wants a bad boy, who will be good just for her.
Every man wants a good girl, who will be bad just for him. This guy really does need to establish who the man is in the household, and fuck her brains out. Everything else could fall into place from there. |
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And I agree with that 100%. But I still think she's being ridiculous in not appreciating the good guy for who he is. Just saying. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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You can be a 'good' guy without being placating / subservient / demurring. You can be "alpha" without being domineering / abusive / belittling. And I agree with that 100%. But I still think she's being ridiculous in not appreciating the good guy for who he is. Just saying. She sees nice=weak. The guy may or may not actually BE weak but for her, nice=weak. She would most assuredly respond to an asshole. Whores gonna whore |
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women want men. make sure you deliver. Because if you ain't it, she is going to find someone who is. regardless your relationship status. I applaud this woman for simply being honest. View Quote I only agree with this to a point. There was a time where being a male with a stable income and personality was a desirable trait in a potential mate. The measure of a man is no longer based on if he can provide a stable life for child rearing. That same guy would be a babe magnet in Eastern Europe or Asia. |
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