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Posted: 11/17/2008 1:02:58 PM EDT

[#1]

Yes.

HH

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:03:04 PM EDT

[#2]

Yep, found her and lost her due to my own stupidity and selfishness. It's been over two years and I still miss her as much as the day she left

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:05:12 PM EDT

[#3]

Quoted:
Married my soulmate after knowing her for only 10 months. She just lift me in September after 33 years. Went home to be with Jesus.

I really miss her.

Edit for spelling.

She would have nailed me about spelling. She was a school teacher.

I'm sorry to hear that.

I can't imagine such a loss.

<––mine would nail me for spelling too.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:05:20 PM EDT

[#4]

Yep, met her here haven't got her name yet so I just call her fleshlight

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:12:02 PM EDT

[#5]

She is A fuckin Bitch

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:12:21 PM EDT

[#6]

I'm not sure that I have a soul.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:13:16 PM EDT

[#7]

well i thought i did, but it ended in divorce

................................twice

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:17:19 PM EDT

[#8]

Yes, and she "loves me as a friend"

Life is cruel. Now i'm going to go write a novel about it.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:17:55 PM EDT

[#9]

I was sure I had, but then I read about teh FleshLight® on an awesome ArfCom thread and now the very foundations of my marriage are shaken to the core.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:20:46 PM EDT

[#10]

They all feel like your soulmate till they stab you in the back or your souls grow tired of each other.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:22:11 PM EDT

[#11]

While I love and treasure my wife, I don't believe in soulmates.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:25:01 PM EDT

[#12]

I've found plenty of "Soul mate right now" types

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:28:39 PM EDT

[#13]

Yes, but I wasn't smart enough to keep her.

Posted: 11/17/2008 1:30:40 PM EDT

[#14]

Yes, I married her.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:34:45 PM EDT

[#15]

Quoted:
Yep, found her and lost her due to my own stupidity and selfishness. It's been over two years and I still miss her as much as the day she left

you and me both brotha

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:37:18 PM EDT

[#16]

Yes. It will be 23 years this May 02 2009.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:42:59 PM EDT

[#17]

No, but the thrill of the hunt is just fine with me right now. If I'm ever going to marry by god its got to be the right one.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:46:57 PM EDT

[#18]

I thought I found Miss Perfect.

She found Mr. Imperfect in me so it was adios amigo.

Life goes on.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:47:35 PM EDT

[#19]

I married my high school sweet heart and voted yes to wheather or not I had found my soul-mate.

Unfortunatly, she just asked for a divorse a half hour ago, so reading this thread has been like getting kicked in the nuts.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:50:20 PM EDT

[#20]

nope

she appears to be hiding very well.

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:51:09 PM EDT

[#21]

Quoted:
I married my high school sweet heart and voted yes to wheather or not I had found my soul-mate.

Unfortunatly, she just asked for a divorse a half hour ago, so reading this thread has been like getting kicked in the nuts.

WOW! sorry to hear that

Posted: 11/17/2008 4:52:13 PM EDT

[#22]

"have you ever found your soulmate?"

Yep, three or four times

'can't WAIT to see what the future holds!

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:07:18 PM EDT

[#23]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I married my high school sweet heart and voted yes to wheather or not I had found my soul-mate.

Unfortunatly, she just asked for a divorse a half hour ago, so reading this thread has been like getting kicked in the nuts.

WOW! sorry to hear that

That's my life...

The big problem now is that I really am clueless. I've never been single as an adult. We've been together since we were 16, and I'm 27...It's been an hour and I'm already lost

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:16:25 PM EDT

[#24]

Nope. I thought I had a few times, and got engaged twice. Thankfully my opinion changed before it became legal both times. Still lookin` though...

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:19:30 PM EDT

[#25]

Yup

She is my best freind and I thank God for her everday.
We were married at 18 -
That was 13 years ago already

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:22:26 PM EDT

[#26]

Still haven't found her. I was talking to one girl for a while but things just never 'clicked'. I'm talking to a beautiful Israeli girl right now. She's here on a work visa and the company put a lot of restrictions on them, so I can't even take her out to dinner or bring her to Synagogue on Friday or Saturday. She heads back to Israel in January, and I'm hoping to head over in February for a couple weeks.

I was homeschooled for 1-12 grade, so I never had an girlfriends growing up and very little contact with girls my age. I'm 22 and I have almost zero experience. I just hope I don't screw things up with this Israeli girl.

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:34:45 PM EDT

[#27]

I think I may have found her...again.. We dated a coupe of years ago and it fell apart because both of us were pretty immature. This time is different. She corrects me on spelling all the time, goes orgasmic over firearms, loves my hobbies, is an outdoorsy type, and also is an adrenaline junkie. We're both not perfect, but neither is anyone else. If SHTF, I also have a nurse that can bandage my wounds, lol.

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:35:50 PM EDT

[#28]

Quoted:

Quoted:
Married my soulmate after knowing her for only 10 months. She just lift me in September after 33 years. Went home to be with Jesus.

I really miss her.

Edit for spelling.

She would have nailed me about spelling. She was a school teacher.

I honestly would be lost

My most sincere heartfelt condolences

Same here, I am sorry.

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:49:29 PM EDT

[#29]

I found my soulmate freshman year in high school and we have been together since. (Exactly 9 years together today)

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:51:38 PM EDT

[#30]

yep, but we were both married

oh well such is life

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:59:00 PM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:
I'm slightly drunk and bored. I wanna know if you believe you've found your soul mate. It doesn't matter if you're married or dating him or her. It also doesn't matter if they left you... Poll incoming for hippie ideology for the win.

So tell us: Have you found a special girl/boy yet??
You seem like one of those gender nuetral people.
What's your gender anyway??

Posted: 11/17/2008 5:59:13 PM EDT

[#32]

Yep. Long story short, we've known each other for about 2 years, dated seriously for 10 months. It's getting about time I put an engagement ring on her finger.

We're hoping to get married sometime at the end of med school, spring of '10.

Posted: 11/17/2008 6:01:05 PM EDT

[#33]

yep been married to her for 25 years

Posted: 11/17/2008 6:42:28 PM EDT

[#34]

met her in 1994––got drunk and proposed within 3 weeks (I fell into the pool right after) She said "no".

I sobered up, and proposed again after we had been dating for about 4 months. She agreed this time.

14 years later, we have a fairy tale life and a fantastic 9 y/o daughter. We do everything together as a family, and I don't even want to imagine what it would be like without my gals.

My life is GOOD!

Posted: 11/17/2008 6:55:47 PM EDT

[#35]

No, but I've met enough people who are with their apparent "soulmate" to believe maybe there is something to the concept after all. And the level of happiness they have with their mate has given me resolve to find Miss Right rather than Miss Good Enough, because damn. Having what they have has to be worth it. I would kill for a woman who made me that happy.

Quoted:
yep been married to her for 25 years

Wow, all this time I had you figured for a younger guy. I'm guessing you didn't have a pre-puberty arranged marriage to your wife though.

Posted: 11/17/2008 8:07:17 PM EDT

[#36]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I'm slightly drunk and bored. I wanna know if you believe you've found your soul mate. It doesn't matter if you're married or dating him or her. It also doesn't matter if they left you... Poll incoming for hippie ideology for the win.

So tell us: Have you found a special girl/boy yet??
You seem like one of those gender nuetral people.
What's your gender anyway??

I'm a man. I'd say I've found my soulmate, she is a female version of me.

I've always thought it was creepy cool because we think so alike and have the exact same personality and the same level of intelligence. We know what each other think without having to say anything.

Posted: 11/17/2008 8:08:22 PM EDT

[#37]

Yup. I proposed to her yesterday.

Posted: 11/17/2008 8:18:52 PM EDT

[#38]

Yup, our mothers walked us together in carriages. Ended up being a long distance relationship NY/VA but she was going to come down here to go to college. Let my friends talk me into banging local chicks when I was 19. Been paying for it for 18 years now.

Posted: 11/18/2008 5:48:57 AM EDT

[#39]

Congrats and good luck.

Posted: 11/18/2008 5:57:06 AM EDT

[#40]

Quoted:

Quoted:
I married my high school sweet heart and voted yes to wheather or not I had found my soul-mate.

Unfortunatly, she just asked for a divorse a half hour ago, so reading this thread has been like getting kicked in the nuts.

WOW! sorry to hear that

That's my life...

The big problem now is that I really am clueless. I've never been single as an adult. We've been together since we were 16, and I'm 27...It's been an hour and I'm already lost

ive been through it many times and it will get better just hang in there i promise. the hard part for me was my kids being gone. best of luck to you.

Posted: 11/18/2008 5:59:06 AM EDT

[#41]

Quoted:
I found my soulmate, but then I called her a slut and choked her out after refusing to take out the trash, and I'm leaving her after 13 years of marriage because she doesn't like doggy style.

You're bad

Yep, 19 years - ditto the other comment about putting up with me.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:01:41 AM EDT

[#42]

No idea about the soul mate, but I've got a wonderful wife and we make each other happy.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:03:14 AM EDT

[#43]

married her 17 years ago.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:03:20 AM EDT

[#44]

oops... I hit the double tap key again.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:09:11 AM EDT

[#45]

Yes

I keep my wife around for sex and to clean the house.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:10:21 AM EDT

[#46]

Quoted:
yes .
thats all.

Posted: 11/18/2008 6:10:31 AM EDT

[#47]

No such thing, really. I've encountered more than one person in my life who was "perfect" for me. Even then, there were plenty of times it didn't work out.