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There is no way I would let this guy in my home at all. Not even to visit. Don't leave shit laying around, especially keys. If you have any meds in your medicine cabinet, move them.
Maybe it is time you have a little man to man talk with the guy and tell him to FO. If he shows up after that...
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I'd say you are a asshole, but then again
I agree 110% with drjarhead, you have done what you can and have even offered help, but he does not want help, not in the least.
This is not aboout you're security clearance or job, but about taking care of you're loved ones and making sure they are safe.
Personally I'd change the locks in the house (just cuz) and make sure ya have good deadbolts. Take the wife shooting & get some alarm company signs & put them out where everybody can see & possibly a fake camera in a obvious location.
Shift you're schedual & do stuff out of character and have the wife do the same, just like if you were living in Saudi and working in the oil patch. Do not be predictable, of if you are make sure the wife in NOT predictable.
Plus I'd have a man to mouse talk telling him he is not welcome in or around you're home till he's been clean a minimum of 6 months & make sure he knows you are not playing around & are extremly serious.