"? for the ladies"--I know, but wanted to offer a bit of encouragement. I am very straightforward, so I told my (now) wife in the first half hour about several items of import for me. I was happy alone (15 yrs.) so I just didn't care if I scared her off. She heard: "There are a number of things that are important to me, and NOT negotiable:
1) I'm REALLY into guns. They will always be my first love. The best you could ever hope for is to be number two--but considering the depth of my firearms passion, that ain't too bad.
2) I don't smoke or drink and have never used any form of illegal drugs. If you do/have, we have no need to extend this "date." (it wasn't really a "date" just a forced meeting by a mutual friend to shut her up and get her to stop bugging me about this "perfect woman for you.")
3) I am very conservative, very old fashioned, and will treat you like a proper lady. I would also expect you to act like one. I will open doors for you, help you with your coat, and die protecting you if necessary. If this is a problem, we are not meant for each other.
Shaggy, if it means anything, she added you to her list of "sexiest/hottest men of AR15.com." You are in good company--
FrankSquid (#1), followed by
EdAvilaSr and
Jarhead22. She didn't say where you are ranked--but you are the only one who let her shoot MG's--her TRUE LOVE in life. Oh,
she was mildly anti-gun when I met her too. Our second date (first real one) was a trip to a gun range. She loved it, the rest is known. I LOVE MY WIFE!