A couple of things, gray color: sometimes, if the part rusts too much, the rust etches the part. this makes a rough surface, it reflects the light differently, and shades grayer too the eye, it also doesn’t want to rust more and won’t get darker.
Card it well, then look with a good magnifying glass. If it is pitted or etched, it’s not going to improve, you just have to suck it up and get the sandpaper out, bare metal,sand away the pitting,polish back to the shine you want, 320,400, 600, start over.
Rusting is like a dot matrix printer, each rust fills in more spots , making it darker, until ever bit of the surface is rusted , which will be black, and it will stop rusting.
Don’t get too worked up about streaking, if you keep repeating the rusts , it will “fill in”, and eventually darken everything equally.