I have written about this light-from-behind issue several time here. You are the first guy I have seen make a comment on the same subject and not come up with some kind of an excuse for the method but instead face it head on.
It is a serious problem and almost impossible to avoid in any activity except solo work away from buildings and other lighting and on a moonless night.
It takes very little light from behind to make the RDS into total concealment for the target and everything else in the RDS field of view. The RDS becomes an object, and is no longer a window to look and aim through. You may as well have your hand in front of your face.
I have found that the "solution" of lighting up the target with IR to cure this, is a bit more complicated that it seems. It takes a LOT more IR to overcome the reflection than it does to light up the target without the reflection. In some circumstances, my (XVL2 and X300V) IR lights are not sufficient to best the reflection, and often when they ARE able, the NV compatible dot has disappeared in the haze anyway.
My thinking is this; if I have a light source behind me that I had not expected, it means I have screwed up. If the activity is important and there is a Target downrange I have REALLY screwed up. So, I will either freeze and observe with the gun out of the way, and, if I have to shoot from there, I'd flip the NV out of the way, hit the white light, and use the iron sights through the glass. For hunting, I guess I'd move or await the animal to wander out of the zone that squirts the light back toward me.
A shade tube behind the RDS would help, but would be fragile and inconvenient and clumsy, especially on an odd-shaped RDS like EOTech that won't take a clamp.
RDS with NV is far more accurate for me than lasers. It's what I go to when accuracy counts. Accuracy almost ALWAYS counts. When you are using RDS you have to plan ahead and brief your pals too. Then you have to set up a formation and choose the position that doesn't hobble you by way of this phenomenon of amplified reflection (wheither from ambient light or the lights you are each using - IR beams, strobes, etc.). In a hunt it can be a problem. In a more serious setup, failing to plan and get the word out to friendlies, it can get one of you killed as a result of cutting your team down from several guns to fewer than you needed when it goes pear shaped because of light you that didn't consider, lost control of, or was used against you.
Just one man's opinion.