How is your AR converted? If it is a registered receiver using a GI autosear, or if it uses a drop in autosear, then it should use standard M16 FCG parts, which are 3 position. You could have an M16 hammer, no disconnector, and a semiautomatic safety, and that would give you safe/full auto with an M16 autosear and bolt carrier. If that is the case, then adding an M16 selector, trigger, and disconnector would give you selective fire.
If your AR is converted using a Lightning Link, then safe/auto is the standard setup using SP1 semiautomatic FCG and bolt carrier. There is a selective fire kit for Lightning Links that I invented (though another individual gets credit for my invention because I blabbed my mouth about it in his presence), using modified M16A2 FCG parts.
John Norrell of Little Rock, AR is the original supplier of these kits. I am not sure if John still sells them. John is good people IMHO. Good information about Lightning Links, and mostly correct information about the M16A2 fcg based selective fire RLL kit can be found
here.