Norman needs a few good friends, I'm sure he'll appreciate your proclamation of sympathy.
I like the lower power scopes cause they allow fast target acquisition up close AND give you a stronger edge at longer ranges.
So to me, a fixed power scope, preferably with BAC, at 2-4X magnification is ideal. If BAC isn't in the budget, then something like the IOR M2 would also be a nice fit. There are other options too.
I understand though, that if I was forced to draw some sort of point out of Norman's banter, it'd probably run close to what you summarized...I think. I stopped reading his crap after a couple posts.
As it turns out the scope I was wanting to purchase is now delayed till further notice...some bills surfaced that I need to squash. So it looks like it's me and the irons for now. I did order the cross haired duplex front sight from DSA, for kicks. We'll see what that can do.
1,000 yards in a hurricane? Man, that's some skill.