This info is from CNCGunsmithing, they sell AR jigs and supply a tutorial, I copied the info regarding the selector dent, hope it helps.
The next hole I decided to drill was the safety selector detent hole. This hole is a two-step process. It uses a (D) 5/32 drill for a depth of 0.188” and a (C) 1/8 drill all the way through the hole until you reach the 3/8 selector switch hole. After the detent hole is drilled, it should hit the center of the selector switch hole. The location of this hole is not extremely critical, so I just scribed a couple lines, punched the hole location and drilled the hole. To scribe the location lines, you’ll need an X and Y measurement, and then you drill where the two lines cross. The first line I scribed was the distance from the back of the buffer tower to the center of where the safety selector detent hole will be. I set the jig on the drill press table with the buffer tower facing down, then took my calipers and measured up 1.931” and made a scribe line. Here’s a pic showing that…