If you can't pull it back using the charging handle with a STRONG Grip & STRONG Pull then DO NOT SHOOT the RIFLE.
I'd suggest you pull the BCG & Disassemble it to check it out.
It could be issues with the Cam Pin perhaps binding. LUBE the BCG VERY WELL. Check the orientation of the Cam Pin. Also check where you have the side pin (little cotter pin) to see that you have it in the correct location relative to the firing pin.
Also - what ammo are you using in your "test fits"? Any opportunity to try a few different brands / types to see if maybe your ammo is oversized?
Hope this helps, but if you are using tools at the ejection port to pry back the bolt carrier, something is definitely NOT kosher.
Edited - put some ammo in it, but do NOT use the Bolt Release to let the bolt fly shut.
Just Gently Ride the charging handle forward so see if the shell will fully seat & seal. If so, that is a good sign.
If it doesn't, how much pressure do you need to apply to the Forward assist? A light touch (normal) or a VERY HEAVY Push?
On a new rifle (parts not broken in yet) it wouldn't be abnormal for the bolt to hang just bit short of locking and the forward assist to lightly bump it with a brief easy touch.
But if you are having to Gorilla it shut, then I would guess your headspace is too tight or another issue is at play.
Hope this helps!