It's hard to know what direction to point you without knowing what you're truly needing out of your rifle.
You talk about accuracy, but are only talking about "rack grade" barrels.
Then you're talking about longevity and durability... in what kind of firing schedule? Precision barrels don't stay precision very long, but that doesn't matter if you're just looking for rack grade anyway.
Longevity of the barrel depends mostly on combination of barrel material, firing schedules, and barrel profile. Use more erosion-resistant steel, don't shoot too fast and get the barrel hot, and have a heavy barrel which absorbs more heat from firing.
If you want to use your rifle as an "arm and shoulder day" workout substitute, get something like a Daniel Defense S2W profile and have fun.
Or get a lighter profile barrel and don't do magdumps.
Or just recognize that barrels are a consumable component and will eventually wear out. You'll spend somewhere on the order of 10 to 20 times as much money on ammo to wear out a barrel as the cost of the barrel, so why get hung up on barrel longevity? Get a spare.
Barrel bore finish (chrome or nitride) does help some on barrel life, but can also degrade precision (chrome moreso than nitride).
Rifling production method doesn't have a significant impact on bore erosion.
BCM's "super soft shooting" is apparently because their gas ports are too small.