This is why I used a pair of soft jaw pliers. As I torqued the barrel nut (torque wrench pulling towards ground), I held the rail adapter from moving by pushing the soft jawed pliers in the opposite direction of the torque wrench. It did not take much force with the soft jawed pliers to keep it from moving. When I got my K-Mod about 2 years ago (from an online vendor), there were no instructions with the K-Mod; so it took several attempts installing it before I figured to use the pin punch and soft jawed pliers. I don't remember the exact size punch, but it was the largest pin punch that fit the rail adapter. After torqing (using soft jawed pliers in the process), the punch fell out on its own (had zero resistance since I was able to keep the rail adapter from moving).
When you get past this, when installing the rail; use a bubble level when tightening the rail in place. Place it across the top of the upper and rail to check the rail is perfectly aligned with the upper, and also the side of the picatinny rail (where K-Mod is laser etched into the side of the rail near the upper (both sides) to make sure it's also aligned in this plane.