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Posted: 7/21/2009 5:21:50 PM EDT
So me and some friends went to hooters in memphis tn. In case you are unfamiliar, Hooters is a "seat yourself" resteraunt most of the time. So me and the guys I'm with seat ourselves and just wait and see which one of the eyecandy waitress's would be serving us. To my horror the waitress who's section we had sat in appeared to be at least 8 months pregnant. i told her that if this was Craker Barrel I wouldn't have batted an eye, and probably left a sizable tip, But this being Hooters I would prefer another waitress. That is almost verbatim what was said. She then started crying and left the table, a minute or so later the manager came out and asked us to leave. That is when me and my buddies went into what I call uber jackass mode and got really rude about the fact the we were being asked to leave hooters beacause we didnt want to get served by an expectant mother, as we were walking out of course because we would comply with the buisness's wishs. Yes we were loud and yes there may have been a few obscenities uttered.
But the question I put to general disscussion, Was I wrong at the begining for wanting a new waitress? I lean heavily toward saying no, because of the nature of the resteraunt. I think resteraunt management should have seen this coming and avoided the situation by placing her in the kitchen or maybe behind the t-shirt counter. |
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Tact would have been a little helpful but eh....it is Hooters.
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Well...if she was 8 months, she probably did have some big hooters.
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Not accounting for taste, I think you were justified. Maybe next time you could ask the manager after politely explaining your reasoning.
Funny you should bring this up though. I've seen plenty of preggars waitresses there too. |
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Ide say you were being a bit of a dick doing that.
Secondly, it is Hooters and I am surprised that the girl was not placed on hiatus during her pregnancy. |
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I don't know if I can condone your actions, but if I went to a strip club and all the topless chicks were pregnant, I'd be pissed. But some guys pay extra for that.
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I hooked up with a hooters girl last year while I was taking summer classes at the local community college. It was on the roof of the parking garage in between classes. Very hot. Thats my only hooters experience, Ive never been to the restaurant.
EDIT I just read your post, and you are a fucking dick. Youre probably one of those guys who goes to hooters thinking you can land one of the girls there, arent ya? You get mad when you get a preggy? |
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You were an ass.
But, that's what the situation called for. Good show! |
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Quoted: Well...if she was 8 months, she probably did have some big hooters. Did you order milk? My response would depend on when and where I was eating. Spring break Panama City Beach after a long day of drinking, I would say something. Going out with guys from work, probably not. |
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Would you have asked for a different Hooters girl if her tits weren't big enough?
I've been to many a Hooters, some times my server was ugly, sometimes NO TITS (go figure), and sometimes they were exactly what I wanted. I think you came out an asshole on this one. |
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While I understand the part about wanting some eye candy, I do think you were a little cruel in your comments.
But the fact that you are doing some soul searching here shows that you are a good person. Just try to consider the feelings of others next time. Perhaps there was a more tactful way to ask for a new waitress - maybe asking for a different table might have done the trick? |
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uber jackass
This. That. If you really want to see tits, go to a strip club. I realize what hooters is (my cousin worked at one, and if SHE had waited on you, trust me, you would have gotten your eyes FULL of some 36DDD––no kidding) but come on man, you can still look at the other girls. GR |
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Quoted: You were an ass. But, that's what the situation called for. Good show! I agree. In any other circumstance, the OP would be considered an ass no matter how you looked at it. But at hooters? If she doesn't look attractive, then why does she still work there? |
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Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside?
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Tact would have been a little helpful but eh....it is Hooters. this |
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I might have been disappointed had this happened to me, but I wouldn't have said anything to the waitress. Most of the time the girls there aren't incredibly attractive anyway.
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Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? This. It takes a real man to make sport of pregnant women..... ETA OP-This thread isn't going quite like you hoped is it? |
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Funny you should bring this up though. I've seen plenty of preggars waitresses there too. well considering most of the waitresses are one step above stripping is it any surprise the food sucks there and if we want to see hot chicks here we take a 30 minute drive to canada to see the ballet |
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Quoted: Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? IMO, this really has nothing to do with anything as he was not out purposely seeking a fight or to get his rocks off by making pregnant women cry. |
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She works at Hooters. It's not like they test their employees' ability to have deep and meaningful conversations with patrons. Guys go there to see tits and ass. She shouldn't really expect to be treated like a queen when shes ready to pop out some little brat. On a side note, I bet that child will grow up in a loving and caring home with a healthy view of women.
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The OP needs to POST PICS OF HIMSELF. GR Heh. Nice move. Dare ya OP. |
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Hey, on the upside, you KNOW she DOES IT!
No she shouldn't have been out on thefloor, but double no, you shouldn't have been an ass. |
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Quoted: Would you have asked for a different Hooters girl if her tits weren't big enough? I've been to many a Hooters, some times my server was ugly, sometimes NO TITS (go figure), and sometimes they were exactly what I wanted. I think you came out an asshole on this one. I concur. |
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I'm usually an uber asshole in public, and even that move would be a bit much for me
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Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? Actually that is the only reason that I have doubted my actions. |
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Yes, you were a jackass.
But don't worry, in this life, what goes around comes around. |
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I'd take the 8 month pregnant hot chick any day over the indeterminate tranny looking broad that last served me at Hooters.
It's not like you can't look at all of the other T&A walking around constantly. |
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I voted "asshole" because of the tactless way you handled the situation. Making a girl cry is nothing to be proud of. You should not have said anything to the waitress. If you had gone to the manager quietly and requested another waitress, I'm sure he would have accomodated you.
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Quoted: Quoted: Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? Actually that is the only reason that I have doubted my actions. Well, like someone already said. The thoughts you are having by posting this indicate you are not Satan himself |
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Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? This. It takes a real man to make sport of pregnant women..... ETA OP-This thread isn't going quite like you hoped is it? The hell it isnt. I already knew I was an asshole. And more often than not I am in this exact situation––- Being a dick but also being correct. Most of the posters have said as much. i guess I get the overall impression that Arfcom agrees that prego chick shouldn't be working a hooters, but that i could have been a pansy ass polite guy and handled it a little differently. |
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Do you think she wanted to be there? I think you need a pop in the chops.<––––––-you<––––––-me
just kidding pretty funny story only because I know how sensitive preggers are. |
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Hooter's= Half-assed restaurant trying to be strip club serving overpriced shitty food. End of thread.
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Man I posted earlier but I just cant get over what a dick move this was. I'll speak my mind in most any situation but I dont even think I would have thought about going to the manager and asking for a different waitress, even if it was done privately. The fact that you made such a big deal about the appearance of your waitress makes you look like a classless, ogling loser. That poor chick probably got knocked up by her boyfriend who ditched her, and now she is gonna support the kid on her own. Hope you feel like a gaping asshole, because I dont see any other way to view your actions.
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You could have moved to a different section. Seating changes are done all the time in the restaurant world.
You, sir were an asshole. |
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Quoted: Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? an 8 month pregnant woman is a festering bowl of emotions, she was going to cry about something anyways. |
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Out of curiosity, how did you feel making a pregnant woman cry? Did it make you smile? Give you that warm fuzzy feeling inside? This. It takes a real man to make sport of pregnant women..... ETA OP-This thread isn't going quite like you hoped is it? The hell it isnt. I already knew I was an asshole. And more often than not I am in this exact situation––- Being a dick but also being correct. Most of the posters have said as much. i guess I get the overall impression that Arfcom agrees that prego chick shouldn't be working a hooters, but that i could have been a pansy ass polite guy and handled it a little differently. You admit you're an asshole, I respect that. I just don't think that was a proper way to treat a woman. From your posts I believe you don't either. At least you admit to it. |
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Respect thy waitress at Hooters or get kicked the hell out. Hooters is really just a restaurant, despite the fact that they hire attractive workers. They have a kids menu.
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If she wanted to work while she was pregnant at a hooters they should have put her ass in the back out of sight.
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