My wife just accepts me for what I am, a cronic gun buyer. I don't try to get into too much CC debt and it's usually money well spent. I give half my pay for bills while retaining the other half for child support and my own bills incurred. It's not a perfect setup, but both of us try to make it work.
I do make 3 times the amount of money as she does now,I get bonuses, x-mas money to which we save for vacations.
Also, I repair all vehicles, repair of house and other minor money pits that seem to crop up.
Garry, this should have been settled from the beginning with the purchase of the vehicle, but I suspect your problems may have been from the onset of your marriage. Now, what you got is a mexican standoff. Every purchase by either will bring more fights over money issues and which one tries to gain the upper hand.
Sit down, set the ground rules now, as money comes and goes but women who can stick with men, are hard to find.
I divorced my first wife over infidelity issues on her part to which I can't accept as normal behavior, so this money thing is so minute.