Hey CavScout,
When you get your stuff... I suppose you will post it here?
These things dont always work out the way we plan.... sometimes things happen. As said before, relax... not everyone checks their emails, and sometimes they need a few days to get down to the post office.
Every time I got ants in my pants like this, the crap arrived shortly after... and I came off looking like... yeah... you guessed it... a pain in the ass.
Now I just chill, and give it time. Haven't gotten burned yet.
You did get his home phone number before doing the transaction, right? You did call him to discuss and verify the number, right? I always do this before speding any decent amount of money. I even have been known to verify it with a reverse lookup on the web.
Since I am sure you took these precautions, give him a call... see what's up.