So I just asked out the girl of my dreams....

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Posted: 4/18/2006 10:09:11 AM EDT

Now this isn't just any chick, but this is a girl that I wanted to ask out since I first met her 3 years ago, but I had no balls, so I didn't. She's one of about 3 girls that I ever really wanted to date.

She is hotness perfected, without a doubt the cutest and hotest girl I ever saw, and she has an awesome personality.

So I cowboyed up and asked for her number...

I pulled it off real smooth, my face was twitching, I was stuttering like an idiot, I said uh about 50 times and she...
wait for it....
WAAAAIIIT for it...
I....
I got shot the FUCK down!
Like the Hindenburg crashing and burning type shoot down.
Japaneese kamakiazi hitting the pacific type shoot down.

She said she has had a boyfriend for about 2 years, and that was it.

So that's how it went down, I'm sure I came off like a real stalker loser.
Fuck.

I guess that's it

Carry on.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:10:36 AM EDT

[#1]

Yeah...boyfriend. If you would have came like you meant it I bet she would have been single. YMMV.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:10:58 AM EDT

[#2]

Kill her boyfriend.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:11:16 AM EDT

[#3]

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:12:40 AM EDT

[#4]

Well, it is done and over with now. No reason to pine away for her, now. Move on. Don't think you are special. Everyone gets shot down by their dream girl eventually.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:12:55 AM EDT

[#5]

Does this mean you'll be changing your screen name?

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:13:03 AM EDT

[#6]

Quoted:
Yeah...boyfriend. If you would have came like you meant it I bet she would have been single. YMMV.

Probably...

I don't know what it is, there is NOTHING I really am afraid of, but If I ask out a chick, unless I have a few shots beforehand, I make an idiot out of myself.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:13:18 AM EDT

[#7]

i take it you have known. her for 3 years and you didn't know she had a boyfriend

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:13:21 AM EDT

[#8]

What kind of stalker doesn't know that their stalkee has a boyfriend?

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:14:03 AM EDT

[#9]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Yeah...boyfriend. If you would have came like you meant it I bet she would have been single. YMMV.

Probably...

I don't know what it is, there is NOTHING I really am afraid of, but If I ask out a chick, unless I have a few shots beforehand, I make an idiot out of myself.

You make an even bigger idiot out of yourself then, you just don't realize it.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:14:55 AM EDT

[#10]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Yeah...boyfriend. If you would have came like you meant it I bet she would have been single. YMMV.

Probably...

I don't know what it is, there is NOTHING I really am afraid of, but If I ask out a chick, unless I have a few shots beforehand, I make an idiot out of myself.

Google: David DeAngelo / Double Your Dating

Best $20 I ever spent, the dude knows his wimmins.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:15:12 AM EDT

[#11]

Quoted:
Well, it is done and over with now. No reason to pine away for her, now. Move on. Don't think you are special. Everyone gets shot down by their dream girl eventually.

Shit I'm not that much of a dork, I'm already over it.

I just thought I'd share my misfortune with you guys, since I know you'd say some funny shit about it.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:16:03 AM EDT

[#12]

Could have been worse.

She could have drawn down.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:17:08 AM EDT

[#13]

If you met her 3 years ago and she has had a BF for the last two years, you had a window of one year and you blew it!

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:18:01 AM EDT

[#14]

Quoted:
Quoted:
Quoted:
Yeah...boyfriend. If you would have came like you meant it I bet she would have been single. YMMV.

Probably...

I don't know what it is, there is NOTHING I really am afraid of, but If I ask out a chick, unless I have a few shots beforehand, I make an idiot out of myself.

Google: David DeAngelo / Double Your Dating

Best $20 I ever spent, the dude knows his wimmins.

Man, I have that book memorized.

And I took a class with her a few years ago, I never really talked with her since then.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:19:55 AM EDT

[#15]

He who dares, wins.

In this case what you won was not the girl, or even a date with the girl, but a better understanding of what you're capable of and that "no" doesn't mean the end of your existence on this planet.

Take the lesson, move on... AND DON'T WAIT THREE FUCKING YEARS EVER AGAIN!

Life is too damned short for that kind of bullshit.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:20:23 AM EDT

[#16]

There's nothing left to do now but needlessly compare yourself to her boyfriend, wondering what he has that you don't.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:21:02 AM EDT

[#17]

I have no clue who the guy is.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:21:31 AM EDT

[#18]

sorry to hear that you got shot down, but at least you asked her. maybe when you meet the next girl of your dreams, it wont seem so difficult.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:21:42 AM EDT

[#19]

Well, pardner, sometimes you like, you just have to "just do it." Remember "faint heart wins no fair maiden."

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:22:04 AM EDT

[#20]

SSS

Shoot, Shovel, and Shut-up, especially since soon you'll be able to pull it off in complete darkness....

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:22:45 AM EDT

[#21]

Welcome to my world in TX. Every girl I ask out either has a boyfriend, just got off a relationship and is swearing off men for a while, or the ole "just want to be friends"

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:23:13 AM EDT

[#22]

Quoted:
I have no clue who the guy is.

Hint: He lives in Niagra Falls.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:26:28 AM EDT

[#23]

been there, done that.

a while back i was buying all kinds of parts from a local dealer for an old bronco i was working on. the girl that ran the register was smokin', and i got to know her a little from being in there so much. one day, while paying for some parts, i asked her if shed like to go out and grab a drink...

"i'd love to!" she said "...but i don't think my boyfriend would appreciate it." as she points to the large, burly, guy at the counter behind me that's been getting my parts...

oh well. you don't loose nothin' by trying.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:27:16 AM EDT

[#24]

Quoted:
SSS

Shoot, Shovel, and Shut-up, especially since soon you'll be able to pull it off in complete darkness....

Ouch. I don't know why, but it's kind of embarassing you saw this!

That was my FIRST thought as I was walking away, "Well, at least I'll still have night vision in a few days"

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:27:42 AM EDT

[#25]

How was it that you knew this girl?

Most dudes I know will broach the boyfriend topic in the first conversation.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:28:28 AM EDT

[#26]

Don't worry about it.
Now you know.

Any angst that might result from being shot down stems from ones inability to accept the fact that she isn't interested. The sooner you accept this, the less magnitude her rejection will bear upon your soil.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:28:30 AM EDT

[#27]

Now you can be more reasonable about who's the "girl of your dreams".

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:29:22 AM EDT

[#28]

Someone needs to post the Tom Brady SNL skit video for this guy.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:33:06 AM EDT

[#29]

Quoted:
Now you can be more reasonable about who's the "girl of your dreams".

HA!

I guess I learned today,If you're going to reach for the stars, reach for the lowest one you can.

Strangers with candy, for those not, "in the know"

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:33:24 AM EDT

[#30]

Look at the bright side - think of all the alimony/child support payments you just saved yourself! Probably enough in the long run to buy a half a dozen NFA weapons.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:33:27 AM EDT

[#31]

Quoted:

oh well. you don't loose nothin' by trying.

Seriously. Neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeext.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:42:29 AM EDT

[#32]

That's better than the reply I got when I tried the same thing in high school.

She said, "Who are you?" ETA: This was said in a condesending disgust sort of way to make it all that much more painful and embarassing.

In comparison, I think you did better.

Kent

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:45:52 AM EDT

[#33]

Well, at least now you know. That's better than going through life wondering about the "what might have been's".

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:48:51 AM EDT

[#34]

I wrote this about a cute coffee shop chick that I thought had been flirting with me.

I go back the next day. This is crazy
I gotta do something; I’m such a baby
Pace the store for about an hour
Dig down deep, walk up and say,
“Can we go out sometime?”
Guess I must’ve mumbled, she asks me to repeat
I dig down twice as deep not to just say “Nevermind”
I ask again with the hairs on my neck standing on end

“Oh, no. I’m sorry, I already have a boyfriend.”

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:54:38 AM EDT

[#35]

This video explains your problem.

Posted: 4/18/2006 10:55:47 AM EDT

[#36]

Quoted:
HA!

I guess I learned today,If you're going to reach for the stars, reach for the lowest one you can.

Strangers with candy, for those not, "in the know"

If you're that broken up about it, consider homosexuality.
Gays don't have any trouble getting laid.

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:03:58 AM EDT

[#37]

Just remember this truism:

No Matter how hot she is, and how great her personality is, someone, somewhere is sick and tired of putting up with her shit.

I've been shot down alot of times, but I've also scored on more than afew occasions, too. It was never the end of the world.

Of course, I got the old "boyfriend" line once, to which I retorted "So? That don't plug any holes..."

She couldn't decide to hit me or laugh. She laughed and we ended up dating for about 6 months.

Don't sweat it...you tried and now realize that the WORST thing they can do is say no.

Or point at your penis and laugh hysterically....

SG

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:06:07 AM EDT

[#38]

Hey, it happens to the best of us.

Actually it's never happened to me, but that's what you're supposed to say.

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:08:56 AM EDT

[#39]

Quoted:

Like the Hindenburg crashing and burning type shoot down.

Technically, if she actually does current have a boyfriend, it's not really a "shoot down" per se, in my opinion.

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:09:10 AM EDT

[#40]

It happends man,but don`t let it hold you down.
The saying goes.."The guy who gets rejected the most...leaves with the most #`s"

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:15:33 AM EDT

[#41]

Man, don't worry about it, its not a biggie.

I mean, if I posted everytime i've been shot down i'de probably be known as a bigger post whore than Napolean_Tannerite

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:16:56 AM EDT

[#42]

ask out her 3 best friends

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:19:11 AM EDT

[#43]

This is why you should not wait 3 years to ask a girl out who you are interested in. Just think of all the wasted time spent daydreaming and masterbating about her that could have been spent soooooo much more productively.

I know, I've done it too, uhhh, waited 2 years to ask, bad idea.

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:20:55 AM EDT

[#44]

how old are you? Do you know this girl from school? 3 years? Thats a long time

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:26:03 AM EDT

[#45]

You need to take up LaCrosse. Those guys get all the chicks

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:31:27 AM EDT

[#46]

Quoted:
Quoted:

Like the Hindenburg crashing and burning type shoot down.

photos.ar15.com/ImageGallery/Attachments/DownloadAttach.asp?iImageUnq=46486

Technically, if she actually does current have a boyfriend, it's not really a "shoot down" per se, in my opinion.

Posted: 4/18/2006 11:38:50 AM EDT

[#47]

In the words of an infamous ARFcommer.........

"Better to balls up and know for sure, than to be in love from afar and never know."

or something like that....