That was a good analogy.
My wife knows I'm trying to drag her to the dark side, but she sees I'm not doing it in an agressive way. If I baby up to her, and give her little glimpses of life away from here, hopefully it will work. She always comes back to family (church and birth) and what we've known. "It's time to get to know something new and see what we can be somewhere else. Let's try it, if it doesn't work out, we can always come back." Tell her things like that, and when you get where you want to be, grab on and cling to it for dear life! "Honey we can't move, I just bolted the new safe to the floor and put in my new reloading bench, I think I might be getting a promotion soon,I heard Kalifornia was infested by fruit flies, locusts, killer bees, anything, JUST DON'T MAKE ME LEAVE MY FREEDOM!"
Yeah that'll work, just tell her that.