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Posted: 7/10/2004 9:44:40 AM EDT
Can you say that a guy/girl (depending on what you are) is good looking without feeling like a queer?
I thought about asking what person of the same sex do you think is good looking, but I don't want this to turn into a guy version of BOTD... that would probably push the limits even for the most confident hetero's. If you're not quite as comfortable, maybe re-wording the question would make it easier... If you could look like a different guy who would you want to look like? |
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I've said "Hey look at that ugly fucker" before but never felt the urge to say something like,"He sure is cute".
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I guess the context would be somethig more to the effect of if you are with a girl and she says a guy is good looking... would you say, "Yeah, he's a good looking dude." or would you say "Ewww.... icky guys." |
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I am absolutely comfortable with my sexuality--and always have been. I can be friends with homosexuals and am not the least bit uncomfortable with that. The very few homosexuals I've been friends with (I live about 70 miles from Peoria, IL so it ain't exactly San Fran around here), or spent time with, knew that I was heterosexual, and aside from a very occasional sexually-oriented joke, the subject of sex was just not a topic of conversation. If others wish to think <insert their weird idea(s) here> about me, I simply don't care. I know what I do, I know what I am, and I just don't care what others think. Basically I just try to concern myself with the sexuality of myself and my wife, and don't care about others and their concerns.
To answer your last question--I've never given that a thought and wouldn't want to look like anyone else. My looks are very "average" and that's okay by me. |
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I seem to have no clue what makes a man "good looking." I often ask my wife, "Do you think he's good looking?" I ask this because I think a woman would find him handsome, but she usually looks at me like I'm from outer space and says "NO!" Oh well--I guess I just don't have a "feminine side"--or else I killed it years ago. |
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Threads about underwear, and now this????
Is there something you want to share with us???? |
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[gay indian from Little Big Man] I'll be your wife pathfinder74...[/gay indian from Little Big Man]
[insecure little boy]My mommy says that I'm handsom and that any girl would love to be my girlfriend. [/insecure little boy] Seriously though, either Tom Selleck, Brad Pitt or Denzel Washington, seems that a lot of women find them attractive. |
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I'm comfortable with my heterosexuality. Not homophobic if that's what you mean. And no I'm not a rump ranger either nor am I bi-sexual.
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If you could look like a different guy who would you want to look like?
perhapse Ron jeremy without the gut and the hair |
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The Man. The One and Only.
If ever there were a standard by which all men should aspire to be, it is this one indisputable icon of all that is manhood. Homer Simpson. |
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No way, Al Bundy all the way!! |
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Yeah, I know what you mean... like me and my wife are watching a movie and I ask her... "do you think he is good looking?" Someone who a guy "admires" based on, say, their character/actions... I think Robert DeNiro is a pretty cool looking guy when' he's running around doing cool guy stuff (like in Ronin)... but I don't think my wife thinks he's very "attractive".
Like I said... I'm just flooding the "under-cover profilers" with useless information... make it harder to put together a portfolio on me (and everyone else) that wouldn't get them laughed out of a room. |
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I have no heterosexuality. Zhukov was right all along.
Flaming gay over here. I'm getting married to TheRedGoat. |
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Hell, I'm comfortable noting good looking livestock. Having said that, if the guy next to me at the auction says "Yeah, that heifer's got a cute butt," I'm moving over two seats. |
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I have no problem referring to another man as "a good looking guy". Ask my wife. If I catch her giving a guy a second glance, that's how I know if he's good looking, or not. No, I don't give her hell for it.
Are you married? Anything you need to tell us Feel free to come out in the Team Forum, if you want to keep it under wraps. |
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I just have never been able to judge if a guy is good looking or not. I have to ask my wife.
However, I do know ugly when I see it! |
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Lets put it this way. I kissed Striker (or was it Sweep?) at the 2003 saturday night GunStock dinner in from of 200+ ARFCOM members.
ANd I didn't even get a boner. SO yes, I am very comfortable with my sexuality....althought I think Striker (or was it Sweep?) is now questioning his.... SGtar15 |
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quoted for posterity. |
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lokt, I have an edit button on every post. I could make it disappear forever and chock it up to a collective hallucination
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Hey, you leave his posterior alone--he's spoken for. |
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LOL
Yes I am entirely comfy with my heterosexuality. I have gay coworkers and it doesn't bother me in the least. To each their own, I don't understand the lifestyle and find the mechanics of it kind of disgusting... and the stuff you see on TV (parades and such, buff dudes in speedos and boots grabbing each other ) would frankly embarass me even if I was gay. |
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I think Tom Selleck is a good lookin guy. I always wanted to be Magnum, PI when I was a kid.
Perhaps it was a latent gay stage and I really wanted to do him. Nahhhh. I liked the stewardess chicks he was always nailing, his car, and the .45 - in that order. |
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I look at other men strictly in the competitive sense. I.E. 'Dammit, that guy probably lays down more trim in a week than I have in my whole life.' |
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Nope doublefeed....we both want to marry him...where is the gimp anyway?
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[Elaine] Do you think Bob is cute Gorge? {Gorge} I'm not gonna answer that. {Elaine} It won't hurt your reputation as a man if you answer. {Gorge}It won't help.
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You, Sir, are a real man. P.S. Thanks for looking at me like that. |
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I don't notice... And I'd look just like me, but maybe 15lbs lighter.... |
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YOU BITCH!!!!, you told me you were mine |
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Uhhh, so it is what it looks like but I can explain! |
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The only guys that I find attractive are the pretty boys like Hanson & Nelson, so I think it is more because they look like girls.
The women at the office say I am bad at picking the cute guys. |
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PSSSST--He asked about "good looking"--not "find attractive." |
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I am totally comfortable with my heterosexuality.
I have gay friends, hell one of they guys I have known for years from high school is gay. His coming out to me went something like this. Him: Well XXXXX its really hard to talk about this. Me: Just do it, don't beat around the bush (good setup for someone coming out) Him: Well I am gay. Me: I know, I probably knew that before you did. Him : you did? Me: Sure, all the signs are there, you just have to read them. Don't worry man, it is all good, and if anyone ever gives you shit for it I still got your back. He is a good friend regardless of his lifestyle choice, has never stabbed me in the back, don't have to worry about him cheating with my GFs, he is a stand up guy, and has more than once gone out of his way to help me out. There has always been an unspoken rule that he tells all his friends that I am not gay so no confusion ensues. Known him for probably ten years and never had a problem. I totally do not care what other people think, Sometimes I probably should, but still its hard to give a fuck. ETA: I can look at other guys, and its more a matter of I can see how they would be considered attractive, not that I actually find them attractive. Like brad pitt, hell I hope I look that good when I am 40. |
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Your choice of words almost sound like an invite to him... just kidding. We suspect my best friend's brother is gay... even my best friend has his doubts about his "preference". I kind of wish he woudl just come out with it already so all the guessing would be done with and we could just accept it. I would have no problem with it... |
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I know plenty of straight, bi and homosexual males and females, so I guess I am comfortable with my sexuality. I don't have any problem at all saying a guy or girl is attractive. Being a former photographer, I look beyond it all and just look at the form of people.
To answer the question, I guess if I could change my looks, I'd prefer to look similar to Tom Cruise. I look ALOT like Ray Romano from the TV show "Everybody Loves Raymond", and have been stopped at the Mall several times. |
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Did you the one about the gay midget?
He came out of the cupboard. |
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Ok not only is that gay as hell........but your a slut too |
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I have always thought Zach Braff from Scrubs looks like a younger Ray Romano. |
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Kissing another man is only gay if you tongue them But you already knew that.... SGtar15 |
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Well I didn't see the act so I'll conced your point on the tongue thing. But if you kiss a man and can't remember who [Sweep or Striker]..... that sir is pretty slutty. OR is what your saying is Sweep or Striker are bad kissers |
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I'm perfectly comfortable with saying "Yes, that is an attractive man."
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Okay, I'll give you that..I'm a slut
And no, they were not a good kisser...he actually moved away like he was scared of kissing another man...I just don't understand why.... ..maybe he protest too much??? Sgtar15 |
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Funny that.......huh of course maybe he is just shy A drag queen friend told me once that the only difference between gay and str8.......was about a 12 pack. |
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