Propguy your not stating where your coming from..
Reason why i ask comes from this.. I'm from the peoples republic of the North east.. My wife and i left exactly 1 year ago today.
We were looking at Ga the jasper area and decided we would end up in the fort benning area..
Well that didnt work out.. My wife landed a job in Fort Myers Fla. it was $10,000 more than she was making in the north east.
So we decide why not try it.. Well we lasted 9 months in Fla.. The heat and humidity did us in..
I still own a house in the north east and for 9 months i traveled (mostly drove) 22 hours to get back up north. I did this about 11 times we were down in Fa.
On the way traveling north i had a friend from high school who lives on the coast of NC. So its more than half way north so i would stop in and spend a night on the coast.
The cost of NC is very similar to the South New Jersey coast expect the ocean is cleaner, people are nicer and its cheaper here than in NJ. My wife is from Southern Jersey.
I work in the IT world and travel many years i the RTP area for my job. I do not like the Northern mentally of the RTP area at all. But on the coast its more of the southern mentally that i really do enjoy a lot...
We skipped GA after dealing with the heat/humidity of FLA. we felt it would end up being the same.
I have been in Jacksonville NC since Feb 1st and my wife and I completey love it down/up here and after I sell my house up north i'll be looking for a town house down here and a cabin in the mountians. (The best of both worlds)
I strongly suggest you visit each state you want to think of living in and take a week or two. Once in the winter and once and summer to make sure you can deal with the weather.
And the biggest thing where ever you move to down south.. Convience the liberal's to move north to where they belong.